Refusing Service on Religious Grounds

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The issue with refusing same sex couples service is that you are engaging in discrimination against a class of people. While SSA is disordered, it is not itself a sin, and even if it were we are still supposed to love the sinner. Further the Church teaches that discrimination is objectively morally wrong. I would not have a problem with a hotel owner saying that someone could not have homosexual relations in their hotel (though I am not sure how this could be enforced) since that is a sin. I am less comfortable with the same hotel owner saying that a homosexual couple can’t stay there.

In the same vain I think I would be ok with a muslim refusing service to someone drinking alcohol (the sin in their religion). I would be less comfortable with them refusing service to someone merely possessing alcohol.
The Church clearly teaches there is just and unjust discrimination. She also teaches homosexual inclination is not the same as race or gender. She also teaches the inclination evokes moral concern. She also teaches not all rights are absolute and some can be curtailed based on certain criteria.
 
But please tell me, how can a Catholic doctor really discuss pregnancy options with 2 lesbians for instance?
The doctor can answer questions within the context of his/her religion, and answer them in the same manner regardless of sexual preference.
If doctors don’t deal with IVF who does then? I am not sure I understand what you are trying to say here.
Catholic doctors cannot perform IVF. If a person asks about it, the doctor can state he does not perform it, regardless of sexual preference.
There was a case of some doctors in California who were sued for refusing to provide this service to a lesbian. The doctors said they don’t provide the service to heterosexuals either. But the California Supreme Court accused them of discrimination. That antidiscrimination laws take precedence over their 1st Amendment rights.
You should be aware that cases are tried in California for a reason: They have the most liberal judges in the country, and you are virtually guaranteed a liberal outcome.
 
Well, in that country, I am pretty sure that in some states, refusing to place children in homosexual households is also considered flat-out discrimination. What some secularists consider as discrimination does not carry any weight when it comes to Catholicism.

But please tell me, how can a Catholic doctor really discuss pregnancy options with 2 lesbians for instance?

:confused: If doctors don’t deal with IVF who does then? I am not sure I understand what you are trying to say here.

There was a case of some doctors in California who were sued for refusing to provide this service to a lesbian. The doctors said they don’t provide the service to heterosexuals either. But the California Supreme Court accused them of discrimination. That antidiscrimination laws take precedence over their 1st Amendment rights.

Leftists will continue in their mission of attacking religious freedom. Some Catholics unfortunately will sympathise with them in the name of antidiscrimination. In places like Canada and Massachusetts for instance, I understand they even have laws that basically prevent people from voicing their opposing to same sex relationships in the name of bullying or hate speech.

Some people pretty much fail to see the bigger picture of this so called “discrimination”.
Said doctors may practice as they choose, no IVF, no service (preventative care, general exams) to lesbians (although that within itself is so wrong, based on the fact that the patient is a lesbian)…they should put a sign on their door, that they do not accept medicare, or medicaid patients. Some doctors do not due to the massive amounts of paperwork involved. That would solve the over zealous Catholic doctor’s dilemma. 🤷
 
When I was a cab driver, I worked in a town where Planned Parenthood performed abortions. Because I believe abortion is murder, I used to refuse to take any passengers to the Planned Parenthood clinic. I also refused to pick up anyone that I thought worked at Planned Parenthood. Doing what I did was probably illegal but I did it anyway.

On a related note, I think that certain professionals should be able to lawfully refuse to do that which they find morally repugnant. A Catholic pharmacist, for example, should not lose her state license to practice pharmacy because she refuses to fill a prescription for a drug that induces an abortion (e.g, a morning after pill).
 
When I was a cab driver, I worked in a town where Planned Parenthood performed abortions. Because I believe abortion is murder, I used to refuse to take any passengers to the Planned Parenthood clinic. I also refused to pick up anyone that I thought worked at Planned Parenthood. Doing what I did was probably illegal but I did it anyway.
Very good example.
 
The doctor can answer questions within the context of his/her religion, and answer them in the same manner regardless of sexual preference.
This is like a Catholic doctor counselling 2 lesbians on getting pregnant. I don’t believe they should do that.

There was a marriage counsellor I think who was sued in the UK for refusing to offer such a service to gays because he just couldn’t do that. I really don’t see how a Christian can provide services to gays who want to have children.
 
This is like a Catholic doctor counselling 2 lesbians on getting pregnant. I don’t believe they should do that.
Implicit in your statements is that the lesbians are asking questions that violate Catholic doctrine and the doctor must cede to those requests. That doesn’t necessarily have to be the case.
 
Unjust discrimination is immoral. Religious beliefs have never told anyone to shun someone based on the color of their skin. Your argument is illogical. This is a discussion about refusing service on religious grounds.
This was in response to someone saying that businesses should be able to do whatever they want. Therefore the question was relevant and logical.
 
You keep bring up race into this discussion. The Catholic Church has never taught that a certain race is immoral.

I honestly don’t get your argument. Based on everything you have said on this thread, you seem to be very okay with ‘discrimination’ as long as it is done by the Church, a religious or private organisation, doctors…and probably other examples that haven’t yet been mentioned.

Why should the above be able to refuse services on religious grounds but a hotel owner shouldn’t? Doesn’t the “go somewhere else” also apply in this case? And again, does sexual orientation takes precedence over religious liberty?
From your response, it appears that you do not understand what I am saying. In the case of doctors refusing certain services, they are not services that they offer to anyone. They are not advertised services that the doctor provides. In the case of a hotel owner, a room is what they provide, to everyone. That is the difference to me in this case.
 
If a husband and a wife go to a (Catholic) doctor to discuss pregnacy for instance, the doctor would attend to them. If two lesbians go to the same doctor to discuss pregnancy, the doctor might not attend to them.
If the doctor offers fertility services they would offer them to the lesbians I am quite sure. If they do not, they would not.

If the doctor offers prenatal care and the couple were already pregnant, I am sure they would offer their services to them as well.
 
From your response, it appears that you do not understand what I am saying. In the case of doctors refusing certain services, they are not services that they offer to anyone. They are not advertised services that the doctor provides. In the case of a hotel owner, a room is what they provide, to everyone. That is the difference
to me in this case.
We know that not all hotel owners provide their services to everyone.
If the doctor offers fertility services they would offer them to the lesbians I am quite sure. If they do not, they would not.

If the doctor offers prenatal care and the couple were already pregnant, I am sure they would offer their services to them as well.
I wonder whether you were also sure before each of all those lawsuits that the persons in question provided their services to all.

If I were a doctor, I certainly wouldn’t aid any lesbian in any way in getting pregnant for instance. That would be contrary to our believe that a child should be raised by a father and mother and not a parent A and B.
 
If I were a doctor, I certainly wouldn’t aid any lesbian in any way in getting pregnant for instance. That would be contrary to our believe that a child should be raised by a father and mother and not a parent A and B.
You have to think these things through. What if, say, the spouse of a Catholic mother was killed. Should the doctor not take her as a patient because she is single?

All these hypotheticals are being thrown out, but the main point is missed. When dealing in the public arena (at least in the U.S.), simply provide services equally. It’s easier than you think. The rest of the issues go away. In the private or religious arena, things are very different.
 
You have to think these things through. What if, say, the spouse of a Catholic mother was killed. Should the doctor not take her as a patient because she is single?
Wow, what a comparison. The Church does not teach that it is sinful to be a widow or single.
All these hypotheticals are being thrown out, but the main point is missed. When dealing in the public arena (at least in the U.S.), simply provide services equally. It’s easier than you think. The rest of the issues go away. In the private or religious arena, things are very different.
What I don’t understand is why ‘discrimination’ is okay for some of you in ‘private spheres’ but not in ‘public arenas’. Can you define a religious arena? Some people believe that religion should only be practiced in a Church building or at home but not in public like at a university.

Again, my key question here is why some of you believe that the Church can ‘discriminate’ but a Catholic business owner shouldn’t when they both provide services to the public.
 
What I don’t understand is why ‘discrimination’ is okay for some of you in ‘private spheres’ but not in ‘public arenas’.
That’s likely because the legal systems in the U.S. and Germany are not the same.
Can you define a religious arena? Some people believe that religion should only be practiced in a Church building or at home but not in public like at a university.
It doesn’t matter what people think, it matters what the legal precedence in the matter is. Different rules apply to different situations, such as private individuals to private individuals, religious or private organizations not dealing with the public, religious or private organization dealing with the public, whether the organizations receives public funding, etc. There can also be issues if a person in a private/religious organization holds a public license. All of these details play into the level of discrimination permitted.
Again, my key question here is why some of you believe that the Church can ‘discriminate’ but a Catholic business owner shouldn’t when they both provide services to the public.
Private and religious entities, and public entities, are handled entirely differently under the law. If you really are interested, it’s best to do some major reading on the subject, since you’ll have to start from the ground up because of the difference in the legal systems.
 
Wow, what a comparison. The Church does not teach that it is sinful to be a widow or single.
The Church also does not teach that it is sinful for anyone to be single, regardless of sexual orientation. So the single-parent argument is moot.
 
If I were a doctor, I certainly wouldn’t aid any lesbian in any way in getting pregnant for instance. That would be contrary to our believe that a child should be raised by a father and mother and not a parent A and B.
Then you likely would not provide fertility services at all, as many of those go against Church teaching. So again, moot point.
 
Wow, what a comparison. The Church does not teach that it is sinful to be a widow or single.

What I don’t understand is why ‘discrimination’ is okay for some of you in ‘private spheres’ but not in ‘public arenas’. Can you define a religious arena? Some people believe that religion should only be practiced in a Church building or at home but not in public like at a university.

Again, my key question here is why some of you believe that the Church can ‘discriminate’ but a Catholic business owner shouldn’t when they both provide services to the public.
The answer is simple, if the “Catholic” business owner deals with the “public”, employees and or customers, follows “business license laws”, “minimum wage laws”, “does quarterly taxes” and most important, if that “business owner” received a grant, subsidy, loan from the FED GOV…said business owner cannot discriminate, period.
 
Anyone who has some degree of private control over whom he/she will and will not serve (i…e., operating as an entrepreneur or an independent contracor), is allowed to exercise some discretion in the refusal of services. It’s just that, were I offering my services in the capacity of a Muslim cab driver or a baker baking wedding cakes, I would be selective. For that matter, many professionals do the same (lawyers who will only take certain kinds of cases – refusing others; doctors who will only practice some aspects of their profession, even within their specialty, etc.)

The terms of service can be stated upfront and should be viewable upfront.

You cannot restrict, based on personal belief/preference, if you are literally employed by a public agency. (This is why I do not work for the public schools in my State; requires me to teach things against not only my Catholic conscience, but against my professional ethics, not to mention against common sense. Yet a contract with the public schools would require me to do all of that.)

Private landlords, by the way, do the same, regardless of anti-discrimination laws. Thus, a landlord I know has refused recently to rent to tenants with children, given recent property destruction cause by ill-supervised children on his property. Does he specify that he is doing this? Of course not. He is selecting whose classifed ad responses he is answering, and while allowing others also to view the apartment, he never gets back to them if they disclose they have children.
 
…adding that, if you had any brains, you would not state a specifically religious reason for refusing certain kinds or conditions of service, merely that you don’t allow containers of alcohol, etc., that your availability to bake a wedding cake is limited due to demand, and may not be satisfied regardless of the amount of notice. Also, you keep confidences, not making available names of current customers with wedding timelines, etc., so as not to provide ammunition for litigious couples to sue you for specific discrimination laws.

You can also segment your services, limiting them entirely at your discretion. A previous ob-gyn of mine limited his practice only to high-risk pregnancies, another to the opposite (no high risk, for reasons of litigation), another eventualy refused obstetrical cases except extremely rare examples (usually if he knew the mother personaly) and limited his practice to gynecology, even though he was still called an Ob-Gyn.
 
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