I don’t think the Church fails a person, they are the ones failing to actually do the research and put some effort into understanding the faith. I also find people who leave are looking for an emotional high and feel that because people come running over to the new person and give them personal attention that this is what they are looking for.
I use to sometimes attend a fundamentalist church with my friend when I was young. It was fun compared to the Episcopal church. The center of attention during “worship” was the preacher. Even as a very young person I found no substance in their type of worship service, not to be uncharitable, for me it was just listening for an hour of preaching and singing some hymns. The teenagers made jokes, and not too nice ones, about the hymns.
There was much gossip in the church. I was attacked by some of the older guys because I wore a crucifix. But all in all it fulfilled the emotional need for a fun time, not so boring as liturgical worship.
When a poster says they are leaving the Church and has only been Catholic for 3 years I expect they will be unhappy again and leave the new church for another in a few years.
All is not what it appears to be in evangelical and fundamentlist churches, people are people with the same sinful natures as in any church. I feel that Catholics cannot convince another of Truth when they have already made up their minds. They must just leave and find out for themselves the truth. Although the Catholics who are so uneducated in their faith will probably turn into very anti Catholics, as unless their choice is another liturgical church there will probably be sermons about how wrong the Church is and just reinforce their views for leaving.
Also if I were to leave the Catholic Church or any other I would not see the need to post my decision on a forum from the church I was leaving. What would be the point?
Yours in the Hearts of Jesus and Mary
Bernadette