I missed a lot of posting. I wasn’t expecting so much discussion.
I am asking wholeheartedly b/c it saddens me that so many people look at Cafeteria Catholics like they are some kind of disease. 80% of Catholics are “Cafeteria Catholics”. I read this yesterday in an article. It got me thinking, that if 80% of Catholics think that the Pope is “behind the times” or “outdated”, then perhaps it is time for the church to re-evaluate it’s stance on things like birth control.
- Not to allow the pill or IUD b/c it is an abortificient, but to allow barrier methods as a licit method of spacing out babies.
- To perhaps be a little bit more accepting of gay marriages.
- Cohabitation of two people in-love with the intention of marrying.
I don’t have the answers.

I’m a Cafeteria Catholic I guess b/c I don’t see anything wrong with barrier methods for ABC or gay marriage. Instead of making a gay person feel like they are doomed for Hell, why can’t the CC make them feel more humanized. I simply do not believe the stance of the CC in her teachings against ABC (barrier methods) and gay marriage.
Many many Catholics that I know are also in agreement with me on these issues as well. I am posting simply b/c the majority of Catholics feel that the Catholic church is wrong on these two fundamental issues.