Solution is realizing that men and women share different but equal functions in the family. Just because each gender has a different role, doesn’t mean they’re not equal. Its like a football team, where the goalie and the forward have different roles, but they’re not unequal. The goalie is needed to defend the goal. The forward is needed to score goals. Both are equal, even though they play different roles. However, if the goalie leaves the net to join the forward because he doesn’t feel “equal” unless he’s a forward, now you have 2 forwards but a defenseless goal so will lose because the other team will score. Such is the 21th century family. Both genders somehow think they must be doing the same thing or else they’re not “equal” which is delusional, meanwhile the family is losing over and over again and will continue to until both genders realize they are desperately needed to play their role for the family to survive.