YES! YES! YES! Youth Masses should be different.
My story: I’m 52; went to Catholic school (grammar & high). I’ve only vague recollections of Sunday Mass as a child, 'tho we were forced to go to the 9:00 A.M. children’s Mass. What I remember the most was thinking either
"He [the priest] *just read a nice story about Jesus. Why doesn’t he talk about that?" *or *“Why doesn’t he tell our parents downstairs
[in the downstairs church]? They’re the ones with the money!” *because all I remember as “sermons” were constant appeals for cash. The school/roof/coal collections, etc. etc.
In 6th grade, when we were no longer required to attend the 9:00, I went to one 11:00 Mass, which I believe was a high Mass, then stopped going.
Although the Lord blessed me with a very deep faith, and I certainly knew my Catechism, I saw absolutely *no connection *between the faith I had & what I found at Mass.
I did not go to Mass or Confession from 6th Grade 'til Senior year of high school where, God bless him, our priest counsellor held First Friday Masses in the auditorium. It was the 70’s, where “anything goes” was the mentality; I’m not saying that I advocate a return to such things as “dialogue” homilies, etc., but if it wasn’t for these Masses which had contemporary music & geared for us teenagers, who knows if I would have continued to go to church on Sunday after my high school graduation?
We are all individuals. God made us like that. He didn’t make us to be robots. We shouldn’t treat our congregations that way.
I’m a liturgical musician who specializes in contemporary liturgical/contemporary Christian music. My firm belief is that every parish should have a Mass with no music. Some people find any music to be distracting.
There should also be a choir Mass mixing beautiful choral pieces & simpler things for the congregation to sing (especially the Psalm response, Sanctus, etc.).
There should be a Family Mass geared for small children where the Children’s Lectionary should be used, together with a Children’s Eucharistic Prayer & simple songs which children can sing. A 6 year old who gets used to singing in church, even something like *His Banner Over Me is Love *(which I personally can’t stand), will grow up to be an adult who sings in church. And, I believe, even in a Children’s Mass,
occasionally, we should add an “old favorite” (
Holy God, We Praise Thy Name comes to mind) & tell the children before singing it that this is a song that we’ve sung for years - that their parents & grandparents & even great-grandparents know it. The homily should be geared to small children. Some of the most profound homilies I’ve ever heard were at Children’s Masses (where I participated as music minister). A short homily that a child can understand teaches the child to listen to the priest when he speaks & causes the child to grow up listening to the homily instead of reading the bulletin or diocesan newspaper.
(And don’t tell me you’ve never seen anyone do this!)
There should be a Youth Mass geared for teens & young adults. The music should be contemporary. There are very many good contemporary liturgical songs. Incidentally, many of what has been referred to as “Protestant Praise and Worship” songs are far better than a lot of what we find in our church missals because they do, indeed, lead to worship, which is what liturgical music is supposed to do. The homily should be geared to the age group. Teens are under enormous pressure. While they may not be worrying about supporting a family, or a relationship with spouse and children, they are worrying about grades, peers, drugs, morality.
This all lays the foundation of going to Mass on Sunday. There will come a day when the teen or young adult will "outgrow’ the Youth Mass & switch to an adult Mass.
I understand that many parishes are so short-staffed that there isn’t an option for that many Masses. Then it’s up to the pastor to be creative. There are as many solutions as there are problems.
P.S.One of the posts questioned why teens don’t volunteer at a regular Mass as lectors, etc. Plain and simple, some pastors will not allow it because of their age! Is it any wonder why some teens drop out of church?
“I wish that my heart could beat, that I could live and breathe only for Jesus, I wish that my tongue could utter no other name than that of Jesus; that my eye could see only Jesus; that my pen could write only about Jesus, and that my thoughts could soar to nothing but Jesus. I have often wondered where on earth there might be something on which I could center my love. But neither on earth nor in heaven do I find any such thing but only my beloved Jesus… O Jesus, seek me in love; I no longer possess anything; you have stolen my heart…” -
St. Gemma Galgani