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I think, if you honestly look at your posts, and those of others who have given their thoughts, you’d see that you are also having a problem with projection (since we’re going for basic psychology!Should I compile a list of what exactly I contribute to my parish?
I feel no need to prove myself to anyone here and then cry about how much I do, or how much others do, compared to those other “lazy parishioners.”
If someone pays money out of their own pocket to give the Faith to another, that’s WONDERFUL! If you give to your parish by teaching the Faith, awesome! But if you’re bitter about doing it, always looking around at the others in the Church and questioning what they do or don’t do, you are not doing it in the spirit Christ intended. And if that bitterness leads to attaching fees to Sacraments… then what in the world are you doing there in the first place?
No, I haven’t taught in the Catholic Church. My husband has and several friends and family (including my brother-in-law, a priest). I haven’t had that opportunity yet. I have taught in Protestant churches with all the right intentions (unlike what someone else said about the motives behind free Protestant classes), and have seen that generosity in teaching begets generosity in other ways.
Look, obviously I’m outnumbered on this thread. People tend to express opinions on the majority side anyway (basic psychology) so I doubt anyone will truly step back and consider the points I’ve made or those made by Jimmy Akin or the priest who moderates this forum.
I believe this is a far more serious issue than you all realize and will only weaken our Church in the future.
With that, goodnight and God bless you all!
I actually went and read the blog for Akin (which you only posted a portion of, and did not link to the original document). From what I read (here’s the link for those who are interested), he is talking about one thing, and you are extrapolating it to cover the additional materials, which as other have said cost money, unfortunately. jimmyakin.org/2005/08/simony_at_sunda.html I don’t have a strong opinion on Akin one way or another, but find it ironic that someone who makes his living by being an apologist gives a side eye to those who are only asking for help in paying for materials, not the teachings themselves. Do you see a distinction between materials and the sharing of knowledge?
In a perfect world, everyone would be able to tithe enough to cover all these costs. But it isn’t perfect, so we have to ask for money. Those who can’t afford are not turned away.
You have avoided direct questions and thoughtful responses, and that I personally find frustrating.
Good night, I hope tomorrow brings better things.