To dshix: I would like to make statements unrelated to St. Boniface Church In San Francisco Lets Homeless People Sleep In Pews.
I am interpreting what I read from you to be a “debate”. My interpretation implies that this thread is a form of a “game” for you. It appears to me that you have set up the “game”.
You have picked the “topic” for debate to be “Respect or Lack of Respect Deserve Our Lord in the Blessed Sacrament.” Under the topic of “Respect”, you have made a subtopic as to if “Sleep is or is not Dignified in the Presence of Our Lord”.
You have taken your place as a “player”. A player who gives his opponent suggestions so they can fix their mistakes before the next move is in play.
You have also taken your place as “moderator” to keep other people on “your topic”.
You have taken your place as the “judge” to decide “whose side gets a point”.
Thank you for a thoroughly amusing way of looking at things. I never thought a person could see things in such a… creative light.
If you feel like looking at it this way, that’s fine with me, but it won’t get you anywhere and it will only serve to amuse yourself and others.
In response to this:
You have picked the “topic” for debate to be “Respect or Lack of Respect Deserve Our Lord in the Blessed Sacrament.” Under the topic of “Respect”, you have made a subtopic as to if “Sleep is or is not Dignified in the Presence of Our Lord”.
You seem to have a confusion concerning what a debate is, and how things usually go after it has been established.
When a debate is begun, a topic is chosen, sometimes intentionally (thread subject) and sometimes arbitrarily (when persons begin talking about a tangent). In this case, the topic was chosen arbitrarily, because posters began talking about whether or not it is respectful to sleep in the Church.
Now, once the argument has been established, all subsequent posts which are posted in response to that argument are expected to stay on topic. If the conversation was about whether processed milk or non-processed milk tastes better, it would be irrelevant for a poster to start talking about the effect of the different milks on the cows.
In that case, we aren’t talking about cows, we’re talking about milk.
Now, in this conversation, the debate has been mostly centered around reverence. I have been contending that it is disrespectful to sleep in the Church, and you and others have contended otherwise. That is the topic.
Therefore, when a person in response to one of my posts begins talking about how good it is to be housing the homeless, that is OFF topic. We aren’t talking about that.
Therefore, I say “irrelevant.”
While you are debating respect due Our Lord, you show little respect to those who are homeless:
You make one remark claiming the possibility that the priest and bishop are ignorant for the true dignity of the Sacrament. Then you change your “rules”.
Yet, this was your remark:
The point of my post is to express to you what I see in your message and at the same time to express to you that I did not respond to any messages on this thread as a “game” or “debate” to “score points for my side”. I imagine there are others who are not responding in a “debate” or “game” format.
I’m not playing a game or scoring points. Maybe you are, but I am not. If you wish to look at me as doing so, go ahead; it will do you no good and me no harm.
When you announce something is not relevant in your eyes and deserves to not be “discussed”, or off topic in your eyes and deserves not to be “discussed”, or use sarcasm, or announce what you think they know (“and you know it” type messages) — you are not practicing respect to the other person. The homeless and those writing on this thread are created in the image and likeness of God and we should treat each other with respect.
I addressed this just above.
I come to Catholic Answers to read what others have respectfully written and to engage respectfully with others.
This message is simply to describe for you my thoughts on my interpretation of reading your many messages.
Fair enough. If I have seemed sarcastic or unkind, it is probably a side effect of my frustration at most of my points being ignored, especially by “Cheezy.”
When I am in a discussion and my opponents keep making points which I have refuted previously, instead of making an unkind remark my normal response is slight sarcasm, because it is often more effective to let a person see their own mistake rather than point it out to them.
I notice you responded to my recent messages but have not read them, yet. My thoughts last night, as CatholicAnne mentioned, is “agree to disagree” on the topic of **St. Boniface In San Francisco Lets Homeless People Sleep In Pews. **
I’m not quite sure what you mean by the bolded. I’m not exactly capable of knowing what you said before reading it…
