Staying free from feminist lies

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I have heard women who are perfectly normal say they won’t have children because it’s gross, painful, destroys the body, etc etc.
 
Could you please draw the line for me? How does someone who fears ptsd and losing hair after childbirth connect to “feminist lies?”
 
That’s par for the course not on in this forum but also in society.

The others are not made up of individuals but drones with hive minds, be they Russians, Chinese, liberals, conservatives, feminists, Muslims, Christians, atheists, white people, black people, etc.
 
Hair loss is a natural process about three or four months after birth. It’s totally normal.

However, the hair grows in thicker during pregnancy, so the hair loss just brings you back to where you were before pregnancy
 
Usually by people who suggest that the hate labels: “Don’t call yourself gay, that’s not your identity!”
 
Some women lose it during pregnancy and sloooowly gain it back after. A friend has lost more hair during each pregnancy than going through chemo. With chemo it fell out faster and with pregnancy it thinned out slowly and seemed to stop growing.
 
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And now that it’s grown in and is long again she colored it purple and she looks like a mermaid.
 
So…some people think they don’t want kid and others do and this is the fault of ‘feminists’, is that what you are saying here?
 
Praying for you! Becoming a daddy will be the hardest and most beautiful thing you will ever do. 😍
 
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Because alot of women are talked out of pregnancy by feminists because of all the “bad things” about it.
 
We don’t need feminists to talk women out of motherhood.

We just need women who talk non-stop on their very painful and very long childbirth experience. Spent some time with my mother and her friend and all they talked about for three hours was childbirth. (Disclaimer: the previous statement is meant to be tongue in cheek in case anyone gets triggered.)

Motherhood should not be entered lightly nor should be it a requirement for all women.

If I were married I would be open to life but as a single I don’t see motherhood as a requirement.
 
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Well firstly I have to ask how old your friend is…no offence but it sounds like the opinion of a really young person with little experience of life. I think a lot of kids have said that sort of thing out of fear of the pain of childbirth and vanity of their looks going and fear of responsibility. It’s sort of understandable for a teen to speak this way. If she’s older then I get your concern. I get what you say about feminism cos it totally misses the point of giving woman dignity in our society…anyway we won’t go into what feminism isnt. It does seem to consider having children as not very much and it does seem to consider mothers as if…is that all you’ve done with your life as if bringing life forth isnt a big enough contribution. So I see where you are coming from that your friends ideas sound feminist, sadly this is intertwined into society too. Have you read Pope John Paul II’s Letter to Woman? http://www.ewtn.com/library/PAPALDOC/JP2WOM.HTM or googled some talks on it on youtube…it is all about the dignity of woman Perhaps if you read this or see if theres a group near you on his teachings about the nature and dignity of woman (Endow group https://endowgroups.org/ ) then they can help you advise your friend. God bless
 
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Honestly, I think discussing having children like it’s a hobby is pretty gross. It’s normal these days, and I’ve participated in it myself, but I try hard not to now. Questions about having children should not be separated from examining if one is called to marriage. The two are very closely and intrinsically linked.

I realize I probably sound like a fuddy duddy, but it’s something I’ve become sensitized to the longer I’ve been a mother.
 
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We just need women who talk non-stop on their very painful and very long childbirth experience. Spent some time with my mother and her friend and all they talked about for three hours was childbirth. (Disclaimer: the previous statement is meant to be tongue in cheek in case anyone gets triggered.)
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Add to that the talk of how expensive children are.

What about “pregnant AGAIN? Do those people not know what causes pregnancy? Snicker Snicker”

Or “I told you that girl would get pregnant. If I were her mom I would kick her out of the house so fast”

These lines come from people all over the ideological map.
 
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Motherhood should not be entered lightly nor should be it a requirement for all women.
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I agree with this statement 100%. I’m a Catholic woman, not a feminist, yet I don’t want kids at all myself. And my reasons for not wanting children have nothing to do with “feminist lies” and everything to do with just me being who I am. I’m not some career-obsessed, overly ambitious woman who doesn’t want kids so that I can take over the world, nor am I a promiscuous girl who just wants to have sex with no consequence. Some women just don’t find babies cute, don’t like being around kids, don’t find the life of a mother appealing, and so on. And your friend is absolutely validated in her fears of the physical challenges pregnancy and childbirth bring. I don’t blame her at all for that.
 
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