Stopped believing in God

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God doesn’t send people to hell. People send themselves to hell. Also as my wise mom once said, “Hell starts on Earth.” So suppose you’re doing the “stupid act of having sex” in the wrong context, right? Well, I assume it will be worse off for you personally because your conscience will tell you that an intimate act in a non-intimate setting feels so out of place and just…miserable. That’s why we say so-and-so situation “felt like hell.”
 
I was going to say something but just listen to Littany, very wise response. Just know hell is not all fire and brimstone, it is eternal separation from God and that we can choose with free will. Gods desire is for all to be saved and for no one to be separated from His love, but unfortunately some do choose to be separated from Him and I believe it breaks His heart.
 
We know of prisoners who have done heinous crimes who have sincerely repented of those crimes, even with no chance of parole.

The notion that every single solitary person in Hell refuses to see the errors of their ways is not only unprovable, not only in defiance of what we experience, but is generated from whole cloth due to questions like the OP asks.
 
Those people can change their hearts. The heart of a person is fixed upon death, and those who reject God will always reject God.
 
Those people can change their hearts. The heart of a person is fixed upon death, and those who reject God will always reject God.
And you know this how? I think @Delusioned is spot on saying that this is claimed not via evidence but as a way to try and set aside doubts why someone would be punished infinitely.
 
That’s (according to my knowledge) what the Church teaches.
 
Judgement happens right after you die, and those that die in a state of rejecting God and His love will thus do such in judgment. That’s what the Church teaches, through Magisterium.
 
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Judgement happens right after you die, and those that die in a state of rejecting God and His love will thus do such in judgment. That’s what the Church teaches, through Magisterium.
I’ll ask again, how did the Church come to this conclusion? We know of people who have rejected the idea that God is real and then later believed it to be true. Why can this not occur after death?
 
Yes, and the real torment of hell is simply the very separation from God that is chosen by the person.

And the concept of Purgatory or a final place of purification has been pretty much held by the Church in both the east and the west in one form or another, by one name or another, since time immemorial.
 
Judgement happens right after you die, and those that die in a state of rejecting God and His love will thus do such in judgment. That’s what the Church teaches, through Magisterium.
Going to hell separates you from God’s grace because those in hell do not want it. Without God’s grace, we cannot turn to Him because the brokenness of our sins grows and absorbs us until our broken and sinful human nature is all we are, devoid of any good.

Hell is like a deep pit. Sure, one could climb out, but those in the pit refused any rope for climbing when they put themselves there.
 
Going to hell separates you from God’s grace because those in hell do not want it.
Not a single person who committed a sin condemning them to Hell would ever want God’s grace? Not a one?
Without God’s grace, we cannot turn to Him because the brokenness of our sins grows and absorbs us until our broken and sinful human nature is all we are, devoid of any good.
And the Church knows this how? Even if true (which it’s not), a good person gives other people all the opportunities needed to make up for their errors. You’re saying that God only displays this goodness for a limited period of time, even though God is infinite and it would not cause God to expend any effort or energy to allow a post-Hell contrition.
Hell is like a deep pit. Sure, one could climb out, but those in the pit refused any rope for climbing when they put themselves there.
In order for an analogy to work it has to make a lick of sense. Sure sometimes people will put themselves into a pit, but at least some of them will later want to get out of that pit. But in your analogy not a single person would ever have a regret, even though there isn’t a person alive who is devoid of regrets or only understood the consequences of their actions only after encountering those consequences.
 
Going to hell separates you from God’s grace because those in hell do not want it.
Nope. God’s grace and love are what they’re trying to get away from.
Without God’s grace, we cannot turn to Him because the brokenness of our sins grows and absorbs us until our broken and sinful human nature is all we are, devoid of any good.
God gives us a whole lifetime to turn to Him, and a literally unlimited pool of grace and opportunities to repent and come back. Without that grace, our souls are starved. Without grace to resist the desires of the flesh, the flesh always wins and leaves the person without ability to fight their bodily wants.
In order for an analogy to work it has to make a lick of sense. Sure sometimes people will put themselves into a pit, but at least some of them will later want to get out of that pit. But in your analogy not a single person would ever have a regret, even though there isn’t a person alive who is devoid of regrets or only understood the consequences of their actions only after encountering those consequences.
Again, they’re deprived of anything that would make them regret their decision to abandon God. They have no grace with which they could order themselves towards God.
 
It just dawned on me, reading this thread… this is pretty much why people go to hell, & stay there. They do not want to hear the truth, convinced of their own interpretation. They refuse the Church because they do not recognize Christ. The refuse the Eucharist because they do not recognize Christ.

Now I used to believe that as long as I was a good person & served my neighbor I’d go to heaven. As long as I believed in Jesus & recognized God is love. All the rest was just too complicated for me. This denomination, that denomination. This tradition… no tradition (which is a tradition in itself).

Now, I realize I was “scattered in my conceit.” I was serving my idea of God, my idea of love… basically i made myself a god.
 
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The answer is God does not send anyone to hell. We send ourselves by rejecting His love.

Its not like God says “surprise, you are going to hell!” We actively chose it through not following the rules God gives us (more then rules, it is to love God).

God in His infinite mercy gives us opportunities to accept His love again when we fall from it (thank you for that God!!) but we have to accept it
 
Well the irony of this is that my cousin has been married for 15 years, has 3 children and would never “reject” God’s love. But he just happens to be Gay, so by some insane people’s standards he is doomed to hell. /rolls eyes. Common sense reveals that’s just not true in my opinion.
 
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I stopped believing after reading about hell.
God created us in His own image and likeness. This means that we have free will. He empowers us with the choice to avoid having Him in our lives, both in this life, and the next.

Although He created us for relationship with Him, love always sets free the other, so we are free to reject Him. How would it be loving to compulse those He created for relationship to exist eternally in His presence, when this is not where they wish to be? Have you ever been forced to be in the company of someone you just can’t stand to be around?
 
Hell is a choice. Not honoring the Sabbath, adultery, lying, etc is a choice not to obey God in which the consequence is Hell.
 
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