Rather than addressing your question from an ‘academic’ or even theological perspective, I’m going to address it personally.
For reference–my wife is evangelical protestant. To her and her people, Mary is like repellant. It freaks her and her family, and all her people, out. Truly freaks them out.
Let me put it to you this way–Mary is the Mother of Chirst; yet they can not, to save their lives, formulate a positive comment about her, that isn’t immediately nagated with “but…”.
As in, “Mary was the Jesus’s mother…BUT that’s all”.
or “…BUT she was also a sinner”
or “…BUT she’s just another human being”
or “…BUT she had relations with Joseph, and had other children…”
I volunteer this for reference.
Now, here’s what brought be BACK to Mary:
When I looked at the Christians throughout history, what the Church Fathers had to say, as well as what contemporary Christians say…I realized that my aspirational peers were Catholic, and many/most held the Virgin Mary in the highest esteem.
I chose to–in fact, continuously choose to–strive to be like them.
As with so much of my search into protestantism, it almost always came down to:
The Church Fathers and the Saints (never mind the Popes) on one side; and the Reformers on the other. (e.g.–wrt—the Real Presence/Eucharist; confession; celibate priesthood; male priesthood; Baptism; basically the sacraments…).
So, I suggest stepping back, and asking yourself–as a Christian, who do you want to seek to emulate, and be more like?
St. Joseph, St. John, St. Polycarp, St. Ireneaus, St. Cyril of Jerusalem, St. Jerome, St. Ambrose, St. Augustine, St. Thomas Aquinas, St. Dominic, St. Francis of assisi, St. Basil, St. Teresa of Avila, St. John of the Cross, St. Thomas Moore, St. Therese of Lisseux, Pope Paul VI, Blessed Mother of Calcutta, Blessed Pope John Paul II, Pope Benedict XVI, Pope Francis, just to name a few that come to mind…
–or–
Martin Luther, John Calvin, “Drs.” Spurgeon Sr &/Jr., Billy Graham, Oral Roberts, Jimmy Swaggart, Jim and Tammy Faye Bakker, Jerry Fallwell, Pat Robertson, or Joel Osteen…
Then ask yourself where each/they stood, vis a vis the Virgin Mary.
NOTE: worth noting–before the ‘Reform movement’ fully lost its way (i.e. the movement that would stray and later be named --rather self-servingly, and inaccurately imo, as the Reformation) Martin Luther–(even AFTER he had been defrocked and excommunicated), made many statements that were very flattering to the Virgin Mary–read into that, what you will.
But, for good measure, here is a quote from St. Irenaeus: