I know when I was in high school, 20+ years ago, the photographer provided the “dress” choices for the girls. It was just a wrap around that resembled a dress really. We had our choice of dark colors (red, green, blue, etc). The boys had a faux tux to wear. Not sure what their options were or if it even closed in the back. For the personal pics, one we would buy, we could wear and change outfits. What would go in the year book, and also on the walls of the school were standard rule for everyone although we, girls, had choice of color.
I don’t think there is anything wrong with that. I am not sure why the photographer let her have the option of a boy outfit or, if what was taken was her own personal shot.
There comes a point where if you don’t like some of the rules in a private school, and it means a lot to you, then you need to weigh if that is the time to leave or stay.
I didn’t like that my shoulders were showing in my formal pic, but the photographer did fix it to where it wasn’t so far down on my arms that it bordered revealing.
Many things we are not going to like. But we need to respect, or learn to respect, the rules.
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