I’m not understanding why this is still being debated…or what exactly is being debated at this point…
- Civil Marriage now includes two persons of the same sex. Civil.
- The Catholic Church is never going to change its position on this.
- Civil Marriage and Catholic “Marriage” are not the same thing, at all.
- A couple can choose to have the two coincide, assuming that the Church approves.
- Two men or two women, as far as the Church is concerned, are not married.
- As far as the United States is concerned, they are.
- The Catholic Church is not being forced to “accept” these marriages, and they never will.
- The fact that some “Christian” businesses have been sued is not evidence of the previous comment. A business isn’t a church.
- Obergefell v Hodges will never, ever be Roe v Wade. Ever. Thinking otherwise is the result of a mind clouded by all the excitement of the recent ruling.
- The US taking away marriage rights from same sex couples is about as likely as them taking it away from interracial couples. No, I’m not comparing the two, but they are both equally safe from being repealed.
I may have left the church, but if there is one thing I miss, it’s being a part of a community that does a lot of good. I still volunteer, but I sometimes miss the church in that regard. I feel like this is what Catholics should be doing now: focusing on doing good. Wasting day after day trying to fight something that, let’s face it, you will never win, is time that could be used out in the world volunteering. Bettering the world. Not trying to make it a little dimmer for a small group of the population, most of which aren’t doing anything to bother anyone.
Sigh.