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I never said there shouldn’t be help.You mean pull yourself up by your own bootstraps.
I am by no means dismissing individual agency but sometimes we need to help and educate people so they can make good choices in life.
Mentoring young people is a good start.
There is nothing wrong with needing help sometimes.
In fact, many times in my post, I imply the need for people born into adverse circumstances to seek out mentors and advisers, helpers and teachers, doctors and pastors/religious people–to help them make wise choices that will increase the likelihood that they will succeed in life.
Another source of good help is relatives, especially parents (2), but also extended family. Of course, if someone chooses to estrange themselves from their family and reject the counsel and help of older and wiser relatives–they will be hard-pressed to escape their adverse circumstances.
But IMO, the “government” is NOT in any way, shape, or form, going to replace the one-on-one mentoring, praying, talking, advising, aiding, and digging in that a teacher, pastor, neighbor, policeperson, bus driver, Scout leader, club leader, coach, volunteer, doctor, nurse, neighborhood ice cream man, etc. can have on influencing a child to start out making wise choices and continue to make those wise choices.
Handing someone a check, a house, a bus pass, free food, free school–these alone will NOT lift people out of poverty. They do make it possible that someone struggling will come into contact with someone who can help them to make good choices that will get them to a better place in life. But the check, the food, the bus, the school–all of it just sustains a life of misery if there is no HUMAN adviser to mentor a person out of poverty and street life.
And of course, if the human adviser is there, but a person refuses to work with them and submit to their wise advice and practical help and make those wise choices that will help propel them to a better life–then…our freebies are only keeping the person alive in a life of misery and underachivement.
Of course, as long as there is life, there is hope. But we do a disservice if we only give “stuff”.
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