Well, we are dealing with “summaries” as opposed to a fleshed out treatises of metaphysics itself. You have to understand and agree with metaphysics first before you can agree with any of the 5 arguments for God’s existence.
All the arguments are incomplete unless you first have a metaphysical understanding of potency and act. Do you understand the distinction between act and esse?
Motion itself involves a coming into being of states, forms, accidents or otherwise, that did not exist accept as potency; and potency in and of itself cannot bring itself into being.
- An essence that is identical to its act or esse cannot change because its nature is “act”, and therefore exists necessarily as whatever it is. There can be no changing of essence or form. There can be no accident, because its essence is necessarily actual.
- An essence that is not identical to its act can change precisely because its essence is not identical to it’s act. Therefore such essences do not exist necessarily.
Now, you can question concepts such as potency and act, or the esse and essence distinction, but then the problem isn’t with the five ways but rather it is with metaphysics itself.