Calvinists claim that we are all equally depraved but that our salvation has nothing to do with accepting God’s grace.
No, they do not believe this. I have explained this, and you said that you agreed. Then you go and say the opposite. Stop contradicting yourself!
For Calvinists, God’s grace moves us to repent and believe (accept God’s grace).
God’s grace acts on those he chooses and he condems the rest with no regard to our actions, desires, or prayers.
Calvinists think that God has chosen from all eternity whom He will save, yes. He did not choose to save us because he foreknew that we would somehow deserve it. He chose this because He is merciful and gracious, and He then graciously moved us to accept His gift of forgiveness and eternal life, in accordance with His eternal purpose. So God’s predestining grace has no regard for our foreseen actions. Our actions follow from His grace.
This is where Aquinas is more complicated and more defensible. But as I said, you have shown no understanding of where Calvinists either agree with or differ from the Thomist/Augustinian tradition within Catholicism.
Clearly, we need God’s grace, but it is up to us to respond.
We need to respond, yes. But we will only respond if God’s grace moves us to do so. The same grace that offers the gift moves us to accept it. That is not just Calvinism. It’s in Augustine.
What I find interesting is that Calvinists seem to find my opening statement offensive or inaccurate then they proceed to argue for that exact position.
You are unwilling to think about the nuances of the issue. And it’s not just Calvinists who find your position inaccurate. I find it inaccurate, and I’m not a Calvinist. Steadfast and OSL aren’t either.
Tell me, as a Calvinist defender,
I’m not a “Calvinist defender,” except in the sense that I’ll defend anyone who is being maligned.
I’m a church historian who studies the early stages of the Reformed tradition. I disagree with Calvinism, but I will not stand by and let people misrepresent it.
how can someone who is not predestined as elect get to heaven in your theology?
By repenting and believing. Which they will not do, because they don’t want to.
Tell me how someone who is predestined to heaven can end up in hell.
By rejecting God’s grace. Which, again, they will not do.
This is not just a Calvinist issue. Any orthodox Christian is going to have some kind of doctrine of predestination. Myself, I find the issue pretty much insoluble from a philosophical point of view. I am impressed by Thomism logically, but I find it cold-blooded (unless you go with universalism, which of course Thomists historically don’t). Calvinists, poor dears, run themselves into all sorts of difficulties by tying predestination directly into their soteriology, instead of leaving it as an abstruse philosophical issue.
Edwin