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tqualey
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Hi, Sandalwood,
Not knowing the goals you had when you joined CAF, it is difficult to provide an objective measurement to see how things are going. But, I do have a few comments that may be helpful in the long-run.
1.) You have just joined - I am responding to your 15th post, which, in reality indicates you have not posted that much - so your chance to interact with others (as opposed to lurking) has been limited. With little time invested, it is difficult to forumlate an accurate picture of CAF based on this single thread. But, it should not end here…
2.) Your statement about being ‘…disheartened since joining CAF…’ does not show much emotional maturity. I don’t kow what was said that has actually ‘disheartened’ you, but, if your central focus is regret for joining the Catholic Faith - and now you are having regrets… and somehow this post is a fault, well… you have more issues here than any list can deal with. I suggest that you take stock of your view of religion and where is you think you are going with it. I realize this is not a ‘warm-fuzzy’ type statement, but, if you are thinking you made a mistake by joining the Church founded by Christ on Peter because some responses have not met your expectations, let’s put this in perspective: you are talking about the salvation of your eternal soul. Any other consideration is boardering on the superficial. And, finally…
3.) Instead of spending time on CAF, spend time with the RCIA, a Catholic Faith Formation group and/or your parish priest and tell him what you told us. I think you need some serious help and if you don’t get it here, don’t give up on the Catholic Faith - get help from a solid source.
Be at peace and God love you.
Not knowing the goals you had when you joined CAF, it is difficult to provide an objective measurement to see how things are going. But, I do have a few comments that may be helpful in the long-run.
1.) You have just joined - I am responding to your 15th post, which, in reality indicates you have not posted that much - so your chance to interact with others (as opposed to lurking) has been limited. With little time invested, it is difficult to forumlate an accurate picture of CAF based on this single thread. But, it should not end here…
2.) Your statement about being ‘…disheartened since joining CAF…’ does not show much emotional maturity. I don’t kow what was said that has actually ‘disheartened’ you, but, if your central focus is regret for joining the Catholic Faith - and now you are having regrets… and somehow this post is a fault, well… you have more issues here than any list can deal with. I suggest that you take stock of your view of religion and where is you think you are going with it. I realize this is not a ‘warm-fuzzy’ type statement, but, if you are thinking you made a mistake by joining the Church founded by Christ on Peter because some responses have not met your expectations, let’s put this in perspective: you are talking about the salvation of your eternal soul. Any other consideration is boardering on the superficial. And, finally…
3.) Instead of spending time on CAF, spend time with the RCIA, a Catholic Faith Formation group and/or your parish priest and tell him what you told us. I think you need some serious help and if you don’t get it here, don’t give up on the Catholic Faith - get help from a solid source.
Be at peace and God love you.
I have been so disheartened since joining CAF because of threads like this. I was seriously questioning whether I wanted to remain a Catholic. I am so sad to see Catholics behave like this. I took some time away and realized, that it’s people acting like this, not the “Catholic faith”. I am going to embrace my faith, but definitely avoid these threads. This is not helping to bring people to the Church. This is why people DON’T join the church, or like me, think they’ve made a mistake by joining.
this is very sad to see.