fix:
I would be happy not to post directly to you in the future. I will not address your silly assertion. You judge me for judging others? Funny.
Dear fix,
You know what? I changed my mind. I like you, and hope you keep posting. Please do not let me dissuade you from posting directly to me – or send PM if you prefer.
I have been civil. If I have offended you, I am sorry.
Look, stop being childish. I called you on it and now you want to retaliate.
No offense taken. I consider it a compliment to be called “childish.” See Matt 11:25, Matt 18:3, Matt 18:4, Matt 19:14, Luke 10:21.
If you desire, please do.
As I said, I’ve had a change of heart. I like you, and welcome your posts. If the moderators are looking at our posts, let it be known that fix is not bothering me. After this post, I will allow fix to have the last word on the Alan v. fix issue so we can get back to the thread subject.
Look, I have read your posts and have posted posted to you many times. Nothing I posted to you warrants your bellicose response. Trying to turn the tables is an old trick. Nice try, but no sale.
Thank you for saying I tried nicely.
Many folks who post here have encountered the culture of dissent that seems to be prevalent today. We can have quick triggers. I supppose what is most striking to me is that for someone to claim they are a Catholic, yet seemingly “question” Catholic teaching raises the doubt index. We are all suppose to be on the same page. If you were a non Catholic, then that would be a different isssue, but to be told again and again what the Church teaches and then to claim the Church is morally relative is to invite a plain reponse.
Now we are on topic.
Have you ever worked as a teacher? When students question the teachers, teachers and the other students learn as well. Those that nod their head and say “yes teacher” may or may not do well on tests. Those who question everything, in my experience, are the ones who are serious about learning something. I am very aware that there are many more people who are much more knowledgeable than myself on Catholic teachings, and I am delighted to have a place where I can ask my questions and get authoritative replies.
Just like with teachers and students, if the students continue to ask the same questions over and over, a good teacher will realize that simply repeating the same explanation isn’t sinking in, and try a different approach. If I’m asking for the reason behind something and a person doesn’t know, that is a perfectly valid answer. If they change my question into “what” instead of a “why” then they have not answered my original question, and no matter how many times they repeat themselves I will still have the question and will ask it again in different ways, taking into account what the person who answered me said the last time, until it is answered or until I realize that no answer is forthcoming.
Moreover, some of my questions come directly from Catholic bashers. If the questions aren’t answered to my satisfaction, then I cannot be an effective witness for the Church.
Certainly you don’t have a problem with that? If not, please try to consider that point of view when you hear people dissenting. Personally I think the person who lets me go on saying things that don’t make sense is not my friend. When the Church says things that don’t make sense to me and to millions of other people, I don’t think I am doing her any favors by nodding and saying, “if you say so.” Dissent and questioning, whatever you call it, is vital. Without it, the Church would never have gotten out of the dark ages.
Alan