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Debora123
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While I definitely think that there are certain clothes that are appropriate to mass, and others that are not, I don’t particularly agree with a lot of the things this certain Church is saying about “modesty” in general.I think more churches should mention things like this church has done on their site:
starofthesea.net/index.php/our-parish/mass-schedule
*What To Wear
We should wear to Mass what we would wear if a King invited us to his home for a feast. That is, we should wear our best. Our best should never draw attention to ourselves but give the utmost respect to the King (and His family) of whom we are special guests.
What Not To Wear *
Why is it Important to Dress Modestly at Mass?
- Immodest or revealing clothing is never acceptable.
Code:* For Women: † Any clothing that bares midriffs or cleavage. † Tight clothing meant to accentuate (to draw attention to) various body parts that God considers, and that we ought to consider, sacred. † Short skirts (above knee) or miniskirts † Shorts (capris are okay if they hit below the knee—but still discouraged) † Sleeveless tops (short sleeves are okay). * For Men: † Shorts (yes, even in the summer months) † Tank tops.
- Dirty clothes are never acceptable.
- An unkept body is never acceptable (e.g., dirty hands or fingernails).
Immodest dress (especially with women) distracts others and could cause them to sin in their thoughts, which is not why we are at Mass.
*There will be times that our only opportunity to attend Mass is after a physically demanding job or after helping Grandma bail out her flooded basement. There is nothing to worry about in such times. We should never let circumstances that are out of our control keep us away from the Sacraments! God knows what we’ve been through, and it’s not anyone’s job to judge us. By all means, come to Mass!
Still, modest*
Luckily, what we wear to church, isn’t what we need to wear on our everyday lives.