“I often wonder what would happen if my own children ( don’t have any yet but hope to soon ), went to Catholic school and turned out to be gay. How would they feel at that school?”
Dear Sina, I would hope any child would be treated with the respect God wants.
However, your posting implies that being gay is a trait like being tall or short, something people have no control over. I would question that. Just a few days ago, there was an article about gay activist Roberta Sklar talking about the women she knew who had a fluid sexuality, women who have affairs with both sexes. If sexuality is fluid, it is not fixed.
Many historians of ancient Rome have pointed out that of the men whose lives we can study, we find many instances of bisexuality, but none of homosexuality. Of the emperors, as I recall, only Claudius was heterosexual. All the others were bisexual.
Again, this argues for a fluid sexuality.