Technically, a straight stick appears bent because of our perception of it. We can choose to accept or refuse the perception. Comfort can be seen as an emotion which results from a decision.
I think I have finally found a question that I can legitimately and in honest curiosity pose to both Catholics and atheists alike (and anyone in between).
To give a bit of background - realising that our base assumptions and our perceptions of how the world works are (perhaps) fairly irreconcilable, I think most of us would agree that there is a certain virtue - honesty, if nothing else - to acting according to our personal convictions. I am in the middle of reading an overview of ethical philosophies, and a concept I stumbled across this morning got me thinking. The suggestion - raised in relation to the 17th-century philosopher Hugo Grotius, and his work
On The Law of War and Peace, is that while theists may not deny that atheists can tell right from wrong, they are still concerned that without a belief in God, one has insufficient motive for doing what one sees as right.
So here’s my question: What motivates you to act according to your own ethical principles? For Catholics, to what extent does your personal awareness of God compel you to do what is right? Do you feel a sense of personal ownership over the ethical principles taught through the Church? For atheists, what do you hope to achieve by what you believe to be right actions, if not unity with God?
Now, I realise that these are highly personal questions, so please feel free to answer to whatever degree you feel comfortable with, or excercise your right not to answer at all! I will, however, break the ice by offering my own answers - since one of my personal principles is that I should not expect others to do what I am not prepared to do myself
Ever since I was a child, I have struggled with the belief that I am essentially a selfish person. Despite assurances to the contrary from others, I maintained that they could not see inside my head, therefore could not see the duplicity of my motives.
As I have grown up (I’m now on the wrong side of 30 - or the right side, depending on your perspective!) I have gradually become reconciled to the idea that it’s okay to do good things
because doing so makes you feel good. I don’t think it’s an accident that altruistic actions tend to make us feel happy, even if only for a brief moment.
I find that for me, happiness is a strong motivating factor. By happiness I don’t just mean pleasure, although of course pleasure has its place. The way I conceive of happiness is as an overall feeling of wellbeing, of being at rights with one’s own nature and the world around us. What I want to achieve is a measure of happiness that is not undermined by the knowledge that I have achieved it at the expense of another’s happiness. It is my firm belief that the kind of happiness I seek cannot be achieved in isolation, therefore in order to achieve my own happiness, I must work towards the happiness of others also, especially those with whom I share my life - family and friends.
Ultimately, to answer a question posed by JDaniel in another thread, what I hope for, as an atheist, is to know contentment at the end of my life. If I can look back and honestly say that I made others happy as well as myself, I believe I will be content.