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tcraig
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It appears to me, given the fact that your friend does attend the NO Mass in Latin on Sundays, that she believes that a NO Mass in English is invalid (because of the words of consecration) and that a Latin NO is valid but inferior to a TLM. Therefore she will grudgingly attend on Sundays and Holy Days of Obligation (and remember that Ash Wednesday is not a Holy Day of Obligation) but chooses to avoid it otherwise.I’d like to know what to do with my friend, she is a very close friend of mine, yet it makes me very sad because she disaproves completely of Vatican II and believes Novus Ordo is not a valid Mass, she sympathizes SSPX, she loves the Tridentine Mass and even refuses to go to Novus Ordo Mass, even in Ash Wednesday.
At my university they offer Novus Ordo Mass in Latin, and she only attends this on Sundays, and she doesn’t attend daily Mass simply because it is all Novus Ordo (even if it’s in Latin).
What am I to do or tell her to bring her closer to God and the Church?
This is a very common attitude among many traditionalists that I have known, and while you may not agree with it personally your friend is doing nothing wrong and probably nothing you say or do will change her mind. While it is admirable to want someone to attend daily Mass, it is not a requirement of the Church and doesn’t mean that someone is lacking in their faith or needs to get “closer to God.”