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Rubee
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So here is what it says:
Indeed. Many people don’t realize this “model” of two people struggling alone with their kids without ready help from extended relations is less than a century old and by no means “the natural way to be” since no one lived that way for like forever! I’ve heard very good talks about all the pressures this model puts on couples and the idea some of it might explain some of the high divorce rates in modern times.We disrupt the Western-prescribed nuclear family structure requirement by supporting each other as extended families and “villages” that collectively care for one another, especially our children, to the degree that mothers, parents, and children are comfortable.
In the old days, people did not depend on ONE person to fulfill all their relational and familial needs like happens these days. There were grandparents, aunties, uncles, cousins to distribute a lot of the need-fulfillment and relating. A lot we take for granted about how we live these days is a far cry from how humans have lived forever; as part of large groups and not just tiny units of two people only and their children (who too often grow up and forget they have duties to the people who raised them as well).
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