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MagdalenaRita
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I am the same way. I prefer not to meet my heroes.
If you married with an openness to life, and you consummated the marriage at least once while being open to life (so marriage cannot be challenged), then I don’t see how the Church is going to police the sex life of you and your spouse to make sure you’re not “avoiding pregnancy”.It is important to realize that pregnancy is being avoided in our society today and many times by Catholics.
And it’s fine if he gives this as his personal opinion – it’s when he claims it’s the teaching of the Church that it’s problematic. Women don’t need a grave reason to work outside the home; men don’t need a grave reason to be stay-at-home parents. It’s up to the couple – who are both responsible for their family, to determine how their employment and child-rearing practices are handled.So, the difference for men would be NOT working without a grave reason. A husband and father is responsible for his family. There would need to be grave reasons why he doesn’t work. Yes, of course there are times when he can’t, (a grave reason) and the wife needs to step in and fill that role but that would be the exception not the rule.
He does have talks that address men and their roles as husbands and fathers.