With all due respect to both of you, these are the kinds of unkind and untrue statements that continue to fuel the division and inability of Catholics from both sides to even talk to each other much less work together.
While I don’t doubt that there may in fact be people who fit the descriptions that you are throwing out here with broad brushes, I know very few people that fit those charicatures. Most of the devoted Catholics who follow the visions proposed by V2 are exactly the opposite of what you are portraying here.
If anything, we are LESS concerned with the visible. Those I know primarily go by a “live and let live” on most of these issues, and only even get involved in the fray because “traditionalists” want to make an issue of portraying people as irreverent, impious, or “less Catholic” for holding hands during the Our Father or not wanting to go back to Latin masses for example. From “our” side, it is the “traditionalists” who are focused on the external and visible.
Further, the V2 people I know and associate with are pious, devout, and committed Catholics who are genuinely trying to live out the visions of V2. They are committed to the social justice issues while not sacrificing their prayer life. They are committed to living the gospel call to care for the “least of their brothers.”
As to thinking they are above the Pope or the Magesterium, I would suggest you take a look at some of the threads here and see to whom that might apply. It is traditionalists that try to say that holding hands or using the “orans” position are unacceptable, though the Pope and magesterium have taken no such position. It is traditionalists who are saying that “contemporary praise” music is unacceptable in Mass, though the Pope and Magesterium have taken no such position. It is traditionalists who are making claims that people are “not Catholic” because they struggle with some teachings, yet the teaching authority of the Church says exactly the opposite.
I am not going to tar all traditionalists with this brush, as it would be just as unfair as the statements made about V2 Catholics. Nor am I going to say that all V2 Catholics are in the same mold as what I have described from my experience. The fact is that we’re all frail, sinful human beings who need each other in the Body of Christ.
When it’s all said and done, we need the conservaitve to protect and defend the purity of the faith. We also need to “liberal” to help promote the vision of how to live out that faith. We need the prayers and devotion of both to be able to help each other carry our crosses and combine them into one cross that Jesus can help us all carry.
We need to always keep in mind that we are one Body with different gifts. Just as the eye cannot cast aside the ear, the traditionalist cannot cast aside the gifts of those committed to the beautiful vision put forth by V2. We are all brothers and sisters, children of the same loving God. This is one place where family bickering doesn’t belong.
Peace to all,