This is excellent, and so very true. A great reminder to measure our days and use our time on this earth wisely.
SaintMirror, bless you for your energy!
I’m not sure if you have a lot of free time because you have a source of income that does not require you to work 8 hours/day or more, or if you are just one of those people who has learned to efficiently utilize your free time outside of your job and get a lot of things done in a short time. Either way, it is good that you are able to be involved with so many good causes.
May I ask if most of your involvement is in the form of letter-writing, phone calls, and newspaper columns, or are you on the road doing lobbying-type work, fundraising, recruiting, protesting, etc. Or perhaps your work is more hands-on; e.g., volunteering in pregnancy life centers, stocking shelves at a food pantry, or perhaps even teaching prisoners life skills? I think any one of these activities would take a lot of time and emotional energy, so it’s great that you’re involved with multiple activities.
I used to have a lot more energy, but I chose to expend much of that energy on my husband and children, and my involvement with various church ministries (we were Evangelical Protestant back then). However, I was also involved in multiple community activities, not only pro-life activities (sheltering women in crisis pregnancies, providing free child-care for teenage mothers trying to finish high school, volunteering at a food co-op, travelling to Washington D.C. for protests, and lots of letter-writing to my local newspaper as well as to elected officials (back before we had computers and all the writing had to be done on a type-writer!).
I admit that I wish I had spent a little more of my energy on myself, as I basically ignored my health and fitness, gained too much weight eating junk instead of planning, shopping, and preparing healthy meals. Also, although I did a lot of activities with my children, I didn’t do any regular fitness activities myself, so now that I am old, I am really feeling the loss of physical strength and flexibility, as well as a lot of pain from my knees after working all day. (Yes, I still work full time.) Often I am so tired I fall asleep in whatever evening activity I’m involved with–so discouraging. I honestly think I probably squandered my good genes and took several years off my life by being over-involved…
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I wish I had been wiser in my choices and perhaps selected one or maybe just two issues to get passionate about.
I say this as a caution to you–please take care of yourself, especially if you are part of a family with children, and if you are still holding down a full-time job. Don’t burn yourself out like so many of us who tried to help everyone except ourselves.