What makes a person beautiful?

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To me it’s a cruel world.
Most people would agree that inner beauty is most important but some people (usually referring to women) have both inner and outer beauty.
Whereas if you are a woman and only have inner beauty and are outer “ugly” ,men will not show interest in you.

For example I’m not sure how familiar you are with the show Married at First Sight (Australian version 2018 ) Anywaysthere was guy Sean who was paired up with this woman Jo on it,
At the wedding it was written all over his face the horror he felt at being paired with someone he perceived as being overweight and/or unattractive.
From that point on,even if this woman Jo had the most beautiful heart in the world there was nothing she could do/be to make this guy take any romantic interest in her because the sad reality is that so many men are superficial and looks must form “part of the package” (of what they want).

Even if Jo had of been paired with a different guy from the show they are all so superficial that they all would have rejected her, although I feel they would have done it much more subtlety and tactfully than Sean did.

The cruel irony is that Christians give the message that its inner beauty that only counts but at the same time we have to live with the reality that God created external beauty.
It’s very hard and hurtful for an unattractive woman/women to live in this world that places so much emphasis that a woman must be externally attractive to have a man interested in her,get noticed,even get some jobs etc!!
I wish God would have made all women externally attractive because it’s very sad that he made all men (or at least most) “need” an externally attractive woman but only made some women externally attractive.
Being unattractive as a woman also robes the joy out of life-eg:no woman wants to feel like the ugly,saggy faced one out at a restaurant while all the other women looks polished and pretty etc and she looks run down/disheveled…
Makeup can only do so much-in some cases it can’t make a person pretty if she hey are really unattractive
 
I’ve never met a person who was physically fit who was unattractive and honestly women don’t give short and overweight men that much attention either
 
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But it’s cruel that Gods blesses some women with outer and inner beauty and others only with inner beauty.
Anyone (providing their brain and will are not affected by an illness) can become beautiful on the inside if they choose,because it’s an act of the will/heart,but not every woman can become beautiful on the outside as some are so unattractive that even make up or cosmetic procedures such as Dermal Fillers and Botox cannot help them.
It’s cruel also as often femininity is tied in with external beauty so not only are you robbed of beauty but also of the joys of feeling feminine in a dress etc because you don’t look in it like your supposed to.
 
Winning at the genetic lottery is just one component of physical attractiveness. You can always amplify your appeal by staying in shape and keeping yourself clean, well-kept, and nicely dressed. Window dressing isn’t everything, but it does matter: for example, a girl who is really pale might look better if she wears darker-hued clothes rather than pastels, a girl with an angular face might look better with shorter hair, a girl with wider hips might look better in loose skirts, etc. It’s not so much about being lucky, but working with what you have.
 
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would you be happy to date or even marry a physically unattractive man?
 
Also keep in mind that experiencing attraction is not the same thing as falling in love. Falling in love is often a lengthy process, and it can happen with people who didn’t strike you as particularly handsome/pretty at first glance. Inversely, if I come across an attractive man, I might think “dayum!” but that doesn’t mean I want to have a relationship with him.
 
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I’ve never heard a guy say in his dating profile or real life "I’m looking for a clean girl"😍
They want pretty not just clean.
If a woman’s just plain then makeup or all the things you suggested can help her but if you are really unattractive then it doesn’t.
A saggy faced unattractive woman still looks like that even in smart clothes.
 
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Rozellelily said:
I’ve never heard a guy say in his dating profile or real life “I’m looking for a clean girl”😍

They want pretty not just clean.
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What a guy wants in a brief fling and what he’s looking for in a wife are two different things.
 
This is Rihanna (AKA the hottest woman on planet earth) as a young teen, before she got all made-up.

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Khloe Kardashian without makeup.

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Jennifer Aniston without makeup.

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