=HerCrazierHalf;13003277]This isn’t about Christian marriage. This is about civil marriage, as that is vastly different than religious marriage. As such, given the disconnect between civil marriage and children plus the benefits to the couples and society on general.
If civil marriage is going to be different than religious marriage because it’s all about how people feel, sexual urges and not raising kids, then frankly civil marriage should be abolished as dead weight because in such cases it is of no value to the state. States are not obligated to pick up the tab for personal indulgences in sexual matters.
For instance, marriage creates a severe penalty for infidelity.
Not in the places where so-called gay “marriage” is legal. In fact, many of the same voices who support so-called gay “marriage” think adultery is between “two consenting adults” as merely a choice. There’s even some murmurs that this behavior is actually a good thing.
Reducing the number of partners reduces the spread of STDs that are rampant in those groups and rising in the general population.
The idea controlling of STDs is a very poor reason to allow so-called gay “marriage” considering the promiscuous behavior involved in homosexual relationships. In any case, those who are sexually promiscuous are not always the best candidates for
immediate fidelity—there is a need to change the behavior, which is never quite so easy.
I also very much doubt that a gay “marriage” will impact the disease rates much, since quite frankly, the underlying motives for such a thing are selfish at heart.
Furthermore, gay divorce rates are either comparable to or higher than heterosexual ones.
Besides, there is mounting evidence that gay relationships put children at a disadvantage.
So, if disease prevention is the concern, the best option isn’t a “marriage” under what I think we all know would be false pretenses, but rather taking measures to prevent getting the disease, such as refraining from homosexual acts and other promiscuous sexual behavior.