And yours would turn them into wage slaves spending more time at work than with their family, and in all likelihood not the type of man women would want to marry anyway. If the end result is the same (single and childless) then I suppose I’ll take the vidya games, aesthetic volcel lifestyle, frogposting on 4chins and 40 hours a week.
Your father lived in a 90% white country with a lower cost of living, few regulations, higher wages adjusted for inflation, and a divorce rate in the 10s. Spare me the boomer bootstrap speech. If I wanted that I’d talk to my father.
Maybe you SHOULD talk with your father! How DARE you criticize all the good men who did the right thing for their families and worked hard to be able to give them a good life!
And this isn’t just the “boomer generation” fathers–this has been the norm since the beginning of the United States! Wilder wrote her biographical books about the time period of late 1800s, and during that time, there were very hard economic times and financial “panics” for many Americans trying to settle this nation.
Interesting that so many fathers were “wage slaves” as you derisively labelled them, but the marriages lasted and many of us turned out fine and respect, honor, and LOVE our fathers.
And stop making a racist issue out of this. If you’ve read any biographies of African American families, you would know that many black men worked even harder than the white men and often worked several jobs to be able to be able to support their families. And how about the Asian work ethic (which is probably over-the-top, but who are we to criticize their own free choice?). And then there are the Hispanics, who again, often work at several jobs to be able to support a family.
It’s not just not “white men” or “boomers.” It’s good men throughout American history who have dreamed the American Dream and worked hard because they knew that the Dream isn’t just a fantasy, but a reality thanks to our Constitution and system of government that offers life, liberty, and pursuit of happiness to ALL.
There is no better time in all of American history than right now for people to go for that Dream here in the United States. The laws currently guarantee equal rights to ALL men and women, of all colors, religions, races, ethnic backgrounds, sexuality, and income levels.
But it’s not free and it shouldn’t be free. Giving people money that they haven’t earned does not help them to become better men or raise better families, any more than giving “easy grades” helps a student to achieve higher levels of learning, or giving an athlete a “bonus score” for trying makes him/her a better athlete.
Instead of campaigning for the government to make everything “equal” for men and women, it would be better to encourage men and women to get busy and go for it. There are thousands of stories of regular Americans who achieved good lives (in many cases, great lives) by taking advantage of the opportunities they have here in the United States.