No, you see, this is the very problem. There is presumptuousness on the part of many properly catechized adults that just because they have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ that they celebrate in the Sacraments, that this is the case with all other people who celebrate the Sacraments, too. Reality is, that receiving the Sacraments does NOT in and of itself guarantee a personal relationship with Christ for all who receive them. The Sacraments enhance an already existing personal relationship with Christ, but they do NOT in and of themselves create one. If we try to teach children that they do, when the children are experiencing that they don’t, we do the children a horrible injustice, and push them away from the Church. We have to teach the children about the type of personal relationship with Christ that exists outside the four walls of the Church, not the type that they have to depend strictly on the Church for, which is actually not a personal relationship at all, but the Church acting as a middle man, if and only if one is depending STRICTLY on the Mass and Sacraments to create a personal relationship with Christ. Many former Catholics who have become Protestants make the complaint that the Church tries to put walls between us and Jesus. This is an invalid complaint, but when we place so much stress on what takes place inside the four walls of the Church, at the expense of the living vibrant relationship with Jesus Christ that we can have outside of the four walls of the Church, it is easy to see where people can come up with the erroneous idea that the Catholic Church tries to place walls between us and God.