What's the point in dating in today's society

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I’m not a fedora wearing nice guy who expects women to fall from the sky into my lap. Why you’d assume that is beyond me
 
It’s a colloquial term for the dating world. Basically, pver time men realized that certain behaviors and traits correlated positively with increased success with women. So they tried to quantify this all down in a set of ‘rules’ and ‘tricks’ that would give them an edge in the dating world.

Most of it is self-explanatory. Much of it is bad psychology masquerading as real science, and the rest is hit or miss. Regardless, it reveals a lot about men and women.
 
It’s redpill stuff. So far as I can tell it seems to amount to the idea that there is some guy (usually called Chad, unless the poster wants to imply he’s of a different ethnicity) who is somehow having sex with any woman he wants because he’s a tall bodybuilder with a chiseled jaw, and who treats women like objects because that’s how they really want to be treated. And he’s ruining it for every other man who wants to get a girlfriend because they all want him instead.

I really have yet to figure out how this works with Catholicism, and presumably you want a faithful Catholic woman. Which pretty much precludes jumping in bed with whoever, no matter what he looks like.
 
Lol. Men who think that women will have sex with bodybuilders haven’t met most bodybuilders. I knew one who was so obnoxious women hated him
 
its probably already been done. Knowing hallmark,they have those movies on a conveyor belt.
 
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It’s not even a sound financial decision. More and more men and women have loads of college loans with worthless degrees. More men and women in today’s society don’t even want children or they value money over family. In today’s society if you refrain from having sex before marriage you’re weird.

Sure some of you may say then date a catholic. But they’re close to nonexistent. Even if there are Catholics who are single in their twenties most of them aren’t even devout. They’re just nominally catholic or they have extremely poor social skills because they were homeschooled. Let’s face it. It seems like the more devout you are the less attractive you are
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Do you have evidence that the degrees are worthless?

Do you have evidence that people value $ more than family and don’t want to have children?

Do you know for sure that there are fewer “devout” Catholics then there were in years past?

Do you have evidence that “devout” Catholics are unsocialized homeschoolers?

Do you have evidence that homeschoolers in general are unsocialized?

I think you’re venting. Not always a bad thing, but it shows a) a lack of maturity and b) being stuck in perpetuating mindset of glumness.
 
Close, but not quite. Anyway it’s irrelevant. Homeboy here is a soon-to-be lawyer, presumably confident with his social graces considering his OP, and presumably good looking enough to qualify for a minimum acceptance of most women. He’s going to be fine.
 
Honestly, there’s no one strategy of “do this and it will guarantee success with women!” Never has been. And certainly isn’t if you want a wife rather than a quick lay! What usually works is to put yourself out there and get to know women. I’m betting once you get past law school and get to where you can have a bit more of a social life you’ll have a much better shot.

Especially since right now, the women in school are likely just as busy as you are.
 
Yeah I do have evidence for everything except the whole homeschooled thing
 
I don’t go to a catholic law school or anything so most of the women in my classes are super liberal
 
They can call it “Anchovies and Amour”.

Or it if it’s in December : “Anchovies and Amour…for Christmas!”
 
I’ve never liked the idea that attracting a woman is a game where there are good strategies that can work for anyone, it’s misogynistic. Women are just people with individual tastes.
 
Yeah that’ll do it. And it sounds like you have a pretty small parish.

Is there a larger parish within driving distance of you? That would be a good start.
 
Come on guys just because we messaged each other doesn’t mean we’re going to fall in love
 
and they can use the same set and cast as all their other movies…:roll_eyes::roll_eyes:

those movies drive me batty- i dont know how people can bear to watch them.
 
What’s a small parish to you? There are other parishes with more young adults but I’d have to drive an hour to it. Every parish in my county is mostly families and elderly. I’m not willing to drive an hour on sundays just to go to mass with younger people when Jesus is right here and that’s what matters
 
Even if you don’t go there for Mass, check out their website and see if there’s any events you could attend. Might be a good way to get to know people. The hour drive kind of sucks, but that can be life sometimes.
 
Why did you make this thread? What kind of responses did you think were coming?

That’s why I said what I did.
 
I still regret making this thread. There should be a delete option for OPs. I don’t know what I was thinking. perhaps the problem was that I wasn’t thinking.
 
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