That is not what I am saying.Your children are perfect examples of how a family should function spiritually.( in my opinion of course!) Thank you, this is a compliment and is truly appreciated. We have worked very hard at ensuring our children have gone into the world prepared as best we as parents were able to prepare them for spiritually. It has been a struggle against secularism and peer pressure. The sad thing is that a large majority of our children’s friends think it is odd that they still have the same parents they were born with. To add to that we are to strict with regards to ensuring that they got to church every Sunday, not running the streets until two in the morning, that we pray before meals at home and in public, and the list goes on. In reality, being an intact Christian family is a very hard thing these days no matter what religion one profess to be. You, as parent, have assured a christian education for them. As you say, they have heard the gospels and know the truths. It is precisely at this point in their christian walk, armed with all you have given them,combined with the religious education received at school and or church that they, being well aware of it’s obligations, would NOW decide to become baptised.So at this point, I guess I would like to ask you where a person finds this in Sacred Scripture. Where does it say exactly and unequivocally that it is only adults that can be baptized? I have heard it compared to marriage. One does not HAVE to be married to love another person BUT because of that love the couple WANTS to declare before God and in a public forum that they are committing to one another for life.Towards this same comparison comes the Catholic Church’s teaches that after Baptism comes Confirmation. Because of my love for Christ, which grew from reading the scripture,and being"educated" in many other ways, I wanted to publicly declare that I was going to live my life as Follower of Christ.This is admirable and I can’t really fault anyone for this. This is a very powerful moment in someone’s spiritual life.NLM