Yep! I’m all with you. If you didn’t already think those things were contemptuous, I dont think theyd easily pop up as a handy insult to use against others.
People who go to racist and similar insults do so because they already perceive those qualities as some sort of flaw or lesser thing on some level, even if they normally have enough sense and control not to say it.
The woman in question Sacramento Karen was angered because the woman accused of saying a word and she said over and over she never said it. She kept repeating to her “I said excuse me”
They are about 15 feet apart. The Black Woman initially walked by her and the white woman mumbled something about her own Black husband according to the Black Woman but she accused her of calling her a name. The white woman denies it.
After a much-heated dialogue, the Black woman got closer, threw something at her, came up to her, got in her face as the white woman backed away, and dared her to say it.