Hello Emily, I am glad to know we are on the same page and that more needs to be done to find ways to help, and not just ignore. By ignoring need, we create even greater issues on down the road, especially for children.
The article you cited, I read it and I don’t know, you can play with statistics anywhere and make them look like you want them too. The only reason I say this is that at the school where I teach students are only allowed so many parent excuses (5 I think) then they must have a doctor’s excuse. Last year was an extremely bad year for absentees in my class. The parents would wait until they were in trouble and take the child to the ER, before they came to school, on that date, with a back dated note from the ER doctor. It was always a trip to the ER, not the doctor. The parents who were trying to help their children get well, not get an excuse made appointments with the doctor. All of this was directly related to insurance. The children who went to the doctor had coverage, those who went to the ER had none. This was not just in my class, but other teachers had problems with it, this was the first year I have actually had to fail a child for a nine weeks because of absentees, and I had to do it with a couple of children. All of these children came from poor homes, with multiple types of family members living there but almost never both of the natural parents. I feel very sure if this survey had been done at our county hospital (the only one in this county), the results would have been far different. Let us not forget that while I am giving that 59X for unexcused absences, I am not enjoying it. I am doing what is required in my job, because no one can tell me that a 6 year old has control over whether or not he/she is at school. We do have a counseling program, and tons of information available to all of the parents about AllKids (state funded BC/BS) and what to do about absences when they happen. This is all for the parents, but the children are the ones still suffering, until we find a program that PUNISHES the parent, the children will continue to suffer. You would not believe how many times I have handed out AllKid forms only to have the returned to me with the parent stating they didn’t know enough about it, and didn’t have time to learn. What is the problem when people will not take 5 mins. out of their life to get free medical coverage for their child.
Now what does this say to us?

I teach in a rural low-socioeconmic area, with very little in the way of industry. The parents are not educated and work at low level jobs. For me at least it is my goal to insure that each student is able to read well enough and do math well enough that he/she will not struggle to help bring the drop out level down. I help with physical and emotional needs as I see them, because that is part of my job as a teacher and a human. It is my hope and prayer that these children grow up to be more than their parents can ever expect them to be, but all they have within themselves.
As you can see, I am a “CHILD ADVOCATE”!!! Anything and everything we can do to help the children, will prevent us from having them as life long dependents of the system. I see and feel the same way with people who have unexpected tragedies in their life or substance abuse problems. The biggest thing I see that we need is education. There is NO straightforward answer to this question, I just know where I can help. Maybe if everyone helped in a way they were comfortable with, and helped who they were willing to help more of our problems would be solved. I like to think so. I like to think that this is part of God’s plan, that we “Help One Another”.