I’m going to ditto what you said. As a religious myself, I will also add that religious life and the priesthood is not a call to saints alone. In fact, those of us who become either religious or priests do so because we know that we are sinful and that this is our only means to salvation.
I don’t know how many lay people know this, but most religious communities and most dioceses require that you write, with your own hand, no computer, a statement that says why you want to be ordained or to make perpetual vows. In your statement you must swear that you believe that this journey is necessary for the salvation of your soul. You must make this written statement before you are ordained or make profession of perpetual vows. You must then read your statement in front of your bishop if you’re a secular seminarian or in front of your religious superior, if you’re a religious, and in front of your peers. Then you sign it and two witnesses also sign it. The bishop or the religious superior sign it and affix their seal to it. This is a solemn declaration that you are a sinner and in need of salvation.
That’s the point that I’m making here. People who become priests or who become religious in solemn vows are people who are sinners. They have publicly admitted this before the Church and their peers. No one expects them to conquer holiness over night. It’s a long journey. Very few men and women are already saints before they enter the seminary or the religious life.
This does not justify sin. No one should. It does not justify mistakes. No one should. But what it does help is to put the person into a clearer perspective. The person with whom we’re dealing is a priest or religious because he’s a sinner and he’s on his journey. We must keep this person in our prayers and ask that the grace won by our prayers will help the person along the path to holiness and conversion.
Fraternally,
Br. JR, OSF