Just for fun, let’s take a look at civil unions!
Five states allow for civil unions: Colorado, Hawaii, Illinois, Vermont and New Jersey.
California, District of Columbia, Maine, Nevada, Oregon, Washington and Wisconsin allow for domestic partnerships while Hawaii allows for a similar relationship known as reciprocal beneficiaries.
Following the passage of same sex marriage laws, five states, Connecticut, Delaware, New Hampshire, Rhode Island and Vermont now allow for same sex marriages and have converted all civil unions into marriages.
If you want to analyze all the state laws, here they are:
Civil Unions and Domestic Partnership Statutes
The benefits of civil unions include the following:
- Inheritance rights, or the right to automatically inherit from your spouse after he or she dies;
- Bereavement leave to mourn for your spouse;
- Right to your spouse’s employment benefits, including health insurance;
- Automatic designation as next-of-kin by medical professionals;
- Joint ownership of property, and community property rights if you’re in a community property state;
- Joint state tax filings;
- Joint parental rights over children born to or adopted by the couple;
- Right not to testify against your civil union partner; and
- Right to seek financial support or alimony after a dissolution from the civil union.
There’s nothing about homosexuality or any type of sex at all in these laws. Nor should there be–do you really want the government telling you what you may or may not do in the bedroom?
Nor is there anything in these civil union laws about living together. They are simply a legal framework for allowing another person (same sex, opposite sex, lover, friend, whoever) to have certain legal rights. That’s it.