Hey
I must say I agree with the comments that I think you’re stretching Mary’s orders to the servants “just a little bit”.
However, there’s no doubt in my mind that it indeed WAS Mary’s wish that people look to Christ and believe in Him.
The thing that troubles me about devotion to Mary and the saints is that although I take your word for it not being worship, it comes awfully close.
One example - from the rosary:
“HAIL, HOLY QUEEN, Mother of Mercy, our life, our sweetness and our hope! To thee do we cry, poor banished children of Eve; to thee do we send up our sighs, mourning and weeping in this valley of tears. Turn then, most gracious advocate, thine eyes of mercy toward us, and after this our exile, show unto us the blessed fruit of thy womb, Jesus. O clement, O loving, O sweet Virgin Mary!”
I’ve heard it said that devotion to Mary and the saints are the same as asking people here below to pray for you. And if that was that, the stumbling block would be smaller, but there’s two things I think we should consider here:
1: I don’t know about you, but if I would like one of my friends to pray for me, I don’t go over to her and say something like:
“Blessed Diana (or whatever the name) - my sweetness, my hope! I pray you to be my advocate before God in this matter. Show me God’s mercy, and show me Jesus, oh blessed sister”
I would say:
“Diana, would you please pray for me in this matter?”
Nothing more, nothing less.
So I think that the “it’s no different than asking an ordinary friend to pray for you”-reason holds water.
“When I have doubts, I turn to Mary and her examples of unwavering faith as a model for me to follow.”
I think we’re about to get to the core of the matter.
It is good and true to look to the rolemodels that Scripture provides, but in praying to these rolemodels, there seem to be an inherant danger of focusing on the possible intercession of these “others”, instead of focusing on Him who they, if we assume you are correct, will ask to intercede.
Can you follow my train of thought, or is my English too bad?