So what you are saying is that I should spend my remaining years on this earth struggling to remember phrases in Latin that mean NOTHING to me, rather than spend the time doing good works and serving God using the gifts I have been given?
To me, this would be a waste of time, especially since it is not a “command” from the Pope or the Lord Jesus.
It’s a command from the Vatican II Council. Take that on what level of authority you choose.
One thing that might seriously help is to chant the prayers. Music is a great tool for memorization. How often have you finding yourself singing along to a old song you haven’t heard in years.
That was a BIG reason monks chanted the liturgy. There were certainly many, many monks through the ages who had the same difficulty with memorization that you have, but it is substantially easier when set to music, and chant in particular.
One of the ways I practice is to chant the Rosary, this is really the ideal way of saying the Rosary, as the verbal prayers themselves are really a chant that allows the mind to focus on the Mysteries.
One reasource that I would recommend is Jubilate Deo. In 1973, Pope Paul VI issued a list of simple chants that every Catholic should know ( his phrasing), note that this too was after Vatican II.
The music is simple, here is a site with free MP3 of the music.
adoremus.org/hymns/
Start with the Pater Noster. There are enought true cognates in that prayer that you should be able to understand what each (major) word means.
Then try the Salve Regina ( this is one I use at the end of the Rosary)
Frankly, I think that sounds like a terrible way to do Mass. Never knowing what anything means, just reciting the phrases.
Now Cat, that’s being a bit dramatic, don’t you think?
Do you really not understand what “Ave Maria” means, or “In nomni Patris, et Fili, et Spritus Sanctus”?
I didn’t grow up knowing this stuff, or even being taught it. I learned it out of necessity. First of all, when I started reading the Vatican II documents, it became clear that I was sold a bill of goods in the Catholic eductation. It didn’t match up to what the Popes or the Council itself taught. So I started learning the Latin responses.
I had never been good and languages, I barely cleared the two years of high school Spanish that was necessary for graduation. And I specifically chose a college that had no foreign langauge requirement.
But that didn’t mean I could not see where Latin corrisponds to English ( true cognates). It am be no means fluent in Latin, or even know how to make even a basic conversation. But that doesn’t mean that a reasonably intelligent person cannot understand what they are saying. Catholics have been doing that for millenia with little or no difficulty.
Later, I began a phase in my carrer when I was travelling globally. Instead of trying to learn enough Korean, Dutch, German, Italian, Amenian etc… to be able to understand Mass in those countries, I simply learned the Latin responses, (and what they meant). So now, I could go to Mass in each of those countries, seek out the local Latin Mass and participate there. In that way, I didn’t have to do what you described ( not understanding what is being said), or worse, I couldn’t even parrot the responses.
But all that travel opened my eyes to how exactly unneighborly we are in the US. We are so danged proud of our ‘vernacular’ Masses, we forget that there might be others in our midst who don’t speak English or Spanish. We aren’t about to lift a finger and give them a chance to worship in the same language as us. We refuse to instruct our kids in a language that they may worship in world wide, and would rather have a stranger sit alone while we pray in English, than to take the time and effort to learn a language more universal to our Church and all pray together.
And make no mistake, they do know it, better than we did. I had a much easier time finding a Latin (N.O.) Mass in virtually every other country other than my own. I’m not saying that every Mass should be in Latin, but why not follow the teachings of the Church and give everyone the opportunity to learn and practice the universal responses. Maybe if a parish has 3 Masses on Sundays, have one be in Latin? And throw in the Sanctus or Gloria in Latin a few times each month in the others.
This is one other thing that Pope Benedict said in Sacramentum Charitas, (echoing Pope John XXIII) that in an increasing global world, Catholics at interlanguage events should worship in Latin, as it (at least elsewhere) is commonly taught, and gives no preference to one person’s language over another.
Is it too much to ask that we make an effort to be part of a world wide Church and to welcoming to foreign visitors, as I was made welcome in so many places.