(Boldface in quote above is mine)
You know, my husband is an extremely intelligent man. He had a 4.0 GPA throughout college and grad school. He double-majored in Computer Science and Math, with a minor in LINGUISTICS.
He attended the TLM in our city once. He had an awful time following the Missal. He said he was lost throughout the Mass. He said he probably won’t go back. To him, the Mass didn’t seem any more reverent than our NO Masses.
Maybe some people are just better at flipping back and forth between foreign language and heart language, just like some people are better at repairing computer programs or playing the piano.
I know that all of you who love Latin and TLM and tradition want all the rest of us to experience it the same way you do. But…sorry!–we’re not YOU!
Here’s a word picture that might help. I have a tremendous crush on the actor, Robert Patrick. I think he is the most gorgeous man to walk this earth! I watch EVERYTHING he’s in, even if he’s only in it for a few seconds, or even if the movie or show is awful. It doesn’t matter, because to me, HE’S always good in it! I have pictures of him on my frig, my locker at work, and my computer screensaver is a beautiful picture of him in a nubby gray sweater.
I just can’t comprehend why everyone else doesn’t feel the same way about him as I do!
Well, obviously, we’re all different, and most people think Robert Patrick is NOT the most gorgeous man in the world. (

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So what I do is join several little clubs of like-minded women who get online and drool like teenagers over him. And I honestly don’t expect the rest of the world to join un in our Robert Patrick adoration society! I wish y’all would join us, because if more people loved him, he would probably be in more movies, and he would probablyl have the lead role in
The Unit instead of a supporting role. (Although according to my daughter, usually character actors like him don’t play the lead; Johnny Depp and Jim Carey are exceptions.)
You see–we’re not all alike. And what comes easily and naturally for some of you is hard as rocks for others. And what brings you to tears of joy will make others yawn.
I think that we need to respect each other and LOVE each other in our preferences. At this point, BOTH forms of the Mass are approved by the Church. At this point, a great variety of music is allowed by the Church.
I don’t buy the argument that we need to speak and listen to the same language to be in unity with Christians all over the world. I know that the Mass is celebrated in hundreds of languages, and that these people are my brothers and sisters in the Lord. We don’t need to be speaking the same language to be One Body. After all, as I said earlier, it is the Eucharist that makes us one, not Latin.
Heck, when I was Protestant, I accepted that I was in unity with people all over the world, even those who didn’t belong to my denomination! I even accepted the–gasp!–Catholics as my Christian brothers and sisters! It didn’t matter. I Corinthians 12 talks about being one in Christ as we were all baptized into Christ by the Holy Spirit.
The Vatican seems to be recommending that people become as educated as possible about certain ancient Latin prayers and responses–this is reasonable, since many of the great classical works (and even some pop works, e.g.,
Pie Jesu by Andrew Lloyd Webber) are in Latin, and educated people SHOULD try to know the basic phrases, just like American citizens should know the basics of our U.S. history and government. It’s just good practice for educated people. (I’m not very good at it, as I mentioned earlier. If I sing in a choir that is doing a Latin piece, I honestly have no idea which prayer I am singing, except the Gloria, and I have to look at the words to remember the lyrics!).
But I still don’t see that the Vatican has specifically commanded that the faithful learn Latin or that the priests use it consistently in the Masses. There’s a lot of wiggle room in those documents that you have been quoting, and a lot of the actual nuts and bolts seems to be left to the bishops. The bishops make the decision that best fits the people that they are serving. I trust their decisions, because they are the apostles of Jesus Christ Himself.