Will I go to hell?

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But since you don’t believe in God, and you know for an absolute fact that you are going to die someday, and everything and everyone you know and love is going to die someday, where do you get meaning in life? Everything is fleeting for you, nothing is permanent. You have no choice but to live for the moment, because you never know when it is going to end. It could all be over for you tomorrow or even within the next hour.
A human need to believe in God is irrelevant to the question of whether he exists or not. We certainly may want him to exist, and it may give meaning to our lives to think that he exists, but ultimately that makes no difference. I may “need” to think that my grandmother is alive and my life may be devoid of meaning without her, but that doesn’t change the fact that she isn’t. The universe doesn’t care what I need.
 
I didn’t say your question is “invalid” I said it was pointless. The answer of fairness doesn’t effect the outcome of whether or not you’ll be damned. I would argue that even asking the question is a danger because it implies God is evil which He is not going to like coming from the likes of us.
So you would also say that if I were being threatened by a Mafia boss, it would similarly be “pointless” to ask whether I deserved such harm and that I should simply submit to my fate without protest?

In one sense, obviously you’re right that it wouldn’t matter if I thought he was being “unfair” since he’s going to break my legs either way. But in another sense – at the level we’re talking about here, evaluating the scenario – the Mafia boss’ action is grossly unfair, and I think that just about everyone evaluating the situation would agree that it is.

Such an evaluation might not help me (the hypothetical guy in the hypothetical scenario), but the evaluation will give us some insight into ourselves: what kind of people we are. Are we the kind of people who passively accept the actions of those in power? Are we the kind of people who think that might makes right in a simplistic sense? Or are we the kind of people who will stand up to tyrants and tell them that they may have the ability to harm us but do not have the ability to be in the right?

You may wish to meekly and passively submit to anything that wields the biggest club, but that’s not my nature.
 
  1. I am not a troll. I am not trying to get people angry. I am trying to learn about what they think, what makes them tick, why they act why they act. Is that so hard to understand? Am I not allowed to be interested in something simply because I don’t believe it’s true? If I met a flat-earther I would most definitely ask why they believe what they believe, even though I think it’s garbage.
I for one, am quite happy to postulate this question with you and I would say to all who are frustrated with your question…if you don’t ask you shall not receive…but I will grant that some people seem to have become a little jumpy with some posters lately who seem to be here not for honest debate rather just to ‘go fishing’ here. So please understand the "why are you here and why do you bother "question is legitimate.
I know this was aimed at NonServiam, but it applies to me as well. First, the reason I reject God is because I don’t think he exists. It’s not because I hate him, am angry at him, don’t want to be with him, or any of that. If I believed that an omnibenevolent, omnipotent being existed who loved me then I’d certainly want to be with him. However I don’t think that there is such a being. I reject God for the same reason I reject Apollo, Thor, Aphrodite, Huitzilopochtle, Freyja, Shiva, and all the other gods and goddesses that have been worshiped over the centuries: I am honestly not convinced that there is any compelling evidence of their existence, so I don’t believe in them.
You differ from NonServiam however in that you try to make it a non passionate ‘intellectual’ I don’t believe in fairies kind of argument where as NS it seems is more obviously trying to bait people into a point where NS can say 'what kind of loving God does that and why would I believe in that kind of God" kind of trump speech. At least ,you are less obvious with your argument even though, as I pointed out you mention the fact that you are a ‘moral’ atheist. You were trying to say ( to me at least it seems this way) “why would a loving God send a good person to hell” be honest did I call you out?? 😃
 
I didn’t say your question is “invalid” I said it was pointless. The answer of fairness doesn’t effect the outcome of whether or not you’ll be damned. I would argue that even asking the question is a danger because it implies God is evil which He is not going to like coming from the likes of us.
Innocent…NS is leading you into a trap. Let it go NS is just playing with you and is just piggy backing off the OPs post looking for a :slapfight:.
 
I for one, am quite happy to postulate this question with you and I would say to all who are frustrated with your question…if you don’t ask you shall not receive…but I will grant that some people seem to have become a little jumpy with some posters lately who seem to be here not for honest debate rather just to ‘go fishing’ here. So please understand the "why are you here and why do you bother "question is legitimate.
You may have a point here. There are definitely lots of people who simply want to fish for arguments, but I don’t think I’m doing that. I certainly want debate, but I’m not trying to get people riled up or angry.
You differ from NonServiam however in that you try to make it a non passionate ‘intellectual’ I don’t believe in fairies kind of argument where as NS it seems is more obviously trying to bait people into a point where NS can say 'what kind of loving God does that and why would I believe in that kind of God" kind of trump speech. At least ,you are less obvious with your argument even though, as I pointed out you mention the fact that you are a ‘moral’ atheist. You were trying to say ( to me at least it seems this way) “why would a loving God send a good person to hell” be honest did I call you out?? 😃
Hmm…definitely not at first, because I thought there would be a little more dissent of opinion rather than almost everyone saying yes. I think “why would a loving God send a good person to hell” became the more important question once the first question was answered. I don’t see anything wrong with that though - it’s the logical progression of the discussion, so there’s no reason not to ask it!😃
 
Innocent…NS is leading you into a trap.
I am not “leading” anyone into a “trap,” nor am I “playing with” anyone. I’m asking serious questions about an intellectual position seriously held by some people here.

If someone honestly believes that I am bound for eternal suffering (for merely not being convinced of a claim), I think it’s fair for me to ask if they think I deserve it. No one’s given me a straight answer on that question yet, and I personally think that’s rather revealing.
 
So you would also say that if I were being threatened by a Mafia boss, it would similarly be “pointless” to ask whether I deserved such harm and that I should simply submit to my fate without protest?

In one sense, obviously you’re right that it wouldn’t matter if I thought he was being “unfair” since he’s going to break my legs either way. But in another sense – at the level we’re talking about here, evaluating the scenario – the Mafia boss’ action is grossly unfair, and I think that just about everyone evaluating the situation would agree that it is.

Such an evaluation might not help me (the hypothetical guy in the hypothetical scenario), but the evaluation will give us some insight into ourselves: what kind of people we are. Are we the kind of people who passively accept the actions of those in power? Are we the kind of people who think that might makes right in a simplistic sense? Or are we the kind of people who will stand up to tyrants and tell them that they may have the ability to harm us but do not have the ability to be in the right?

You may wish to meekly and passively submit to anything that wields the biggest club, but that’s not my nature.
So far I think you have compared God, who created you, whose knowledge and wisdom are infinitely beyond you, to a mafia boss and called Him a tyrant. And I think you are advocating “standing up to Him” and giving Him a piece of our minds. Did I get that right?

If you even saw the God that we are talking about you would urinate in your britches. The disconnect between us and you is that you simply don’t believe. Meekness and passivity before tyrants is cowardice but to your Creator is it virtue. You don’t have a humble bone in your body if you can’t see that.
 
A human need to believe in God is irrelevant to the question of whether he exists or not. We certainly may want him to exist, and it may give meaning to our lives to think that he exists, but ultimately that makes no difference. I may “need” to think that my grandmother is alive and my life may be devoid of meaning without her, but that doesn’t change the fact that she isn’t. The universe doesn’t care what I need.
But God does and hopefully one day you will have your ‘proof’’ Thomas…just pray it is not too late for you and that proof is not the burn of sadness as you see our Lord’s tears as He mourns the loss of your soul.

So what kind of ‘proof’’ of God 's existence would you need to believe?
 
its for God to decide

come back to the faith, even on the off chance that what you believe is true…what did you really lose

but if your wrong… well…:eek:

I was an athiest for a second in my life, but I am much Happier with God in my life!
The problem is that I can’t just start believing in God again. It’s not something I chose, it’s something that I concluded after a lot of reading and thought. I can no sooner make myself believe in God than I could make myself believe anything else I believe to be false.
 
I am not “leading” anyone into a “trap,” nor am I “playing with” anyone. I’m asking serious questions about an intellectual position seriously held by some people here.

If someone honestly believes that I am bound for eternal suffering (for merely not being convinced of a claim), I think it’s fair for me to ask if they think I deserve it. No one’s given me a straight answer on that question yet, and I personally think that’s rather revealing.
Yes they have you just didn’t like it. You have been told that we are not the judge of what you deserve- God is.
 
I am not “leading” anyone into a “trap,” nor am I “playing with” anyone. I’m asking serious questions about an intellectual position seriously held by some people here.

If someone honestly believes that I am bound for eternal suffering (for merely not being convinced of a claim), I think it’s fair for me to ask if they think I deserve it. No one’s given me a straight answer on that question yet, and I personally think that’s rather revealing.
I gave you a straight answer. Yes you will be damned: fairness is judged by God not me but realty is He can make those judgements because of what He is. You can cry foul all you want I’m sure everybody in Hell does the same.
 
But God does and hopefully one day you will have your ‘proof’’ Thomas…just pray it is not too late for you and that proof is not the burn of sadness as you see our Lord’s tears as He mourns the loss of your soul.

So what kind of ‘proof’’ of God 's existence would you need to believe?
A satisfying resolution to the problem of evil and problem of hell, an explanation of how omniscience and free will don’t contradict each other, evidence that God exists, reason to believe that this god is Yahweh and not one of the other millions of gods that have existed, and the list goes on.

And if God does exist then I certainly hope to find my proof as well!
 
I did not mean to offend you, but was replying essentially to what another poster mentioned was modernism. I have re- read your post and again I do say that one has to be careful because it can read like relativism. For example :I played devils advocate in another thread and suggested that former speaker of the US House ( because you use the word ‘rubbish’ I wonder if you live in the US:D) Nancy Pelosi ,a self professed Catholic, can whole heartedly believe that her faith ‘compels her’ to support gay marriage because perhaps she was never properly Catechized. Everyone rightly jumped in and said that at some point an adult has the responsibility for their own beliefs!
I did not mean to pick a fight with you and would prefer to stay with the OPs intent.
Fair enough…I just get a little touchy at being accused of heresy…even if it was by another poster. Even if my post may “read like relativism”, there is nothing in it that contradicts Church teaching (or if there is, I hope to be corrected).

My intent was not to contradict Church teaching, but to provide a counterpoint to the fairly rigid application of the principle of invincible ignorance by anothe poster.

Since the discussion of invincible ignorance is directly relevant, I’ll post the same link again, to Jimmy Akin’s discussion of it:

catholicculture.org/cultu…fm?recnum=1203

Importantly, ignorance can remain invincible if a person applies due diligence in seeking the truth. I don’t know the OP or their motives in posting this, but someone who spends time on a Catholic forum in discussing such matters may well be applying diligence in their search for the truth. If they die while still holding the belief that there is no God, it is only for God to decide if their ignorance (their unbelief) is invincible. Actually, it may be argued that even merely vincible ignorance would sufficiently lessen their culpability. Of course, like everyone else, they will need to account for other sins, and their unbelief may not be the only objectively grave sin that may lead them to damnation.

PS I’m not American…we still refer to “rubbish” in Australia.
 
Hmm…definitely not at first, because I thought there would be a little more dissent of opinion rather than almost everyone saying yes. I think “why would a loving God send a good person to hell” became the more important question once the first question was answered. I don’t see anything wrong with that though - it’s the logical progression of the discussion, so there’s no reason not to ask it!😃
Fair enough at least you are honest! it is a very common question the “why would a loving God allow” question and the answer is already in this thread… basically because He loves us so much that He allows us total free will because only then when we freely choose Him does He ( and we) know that our love is genuine because he wants us to be His family not His slaves. …So natural progression will follow BUT how can a loving God allow …children to be harmed for example or any of the other evil…a tough one to swallow I know , but again it is our free will that chooses evil that allows evil to exist.

You never did answer my questions in purple to you on the morals issue. How can you know that evil exists if you do not know the truth of the existence of good? You can not say that you know what is good by human experience because that system leads to relativism and a rejection of ultimate truth. Simple example: Your red apple tastes good to me so I will take it and eat it…was that good for you?
 
So far I think you have compared God, who created you, whose knowledge and wisdom are infinitely beyond you, to a mafia boss and called Him a tyrant.
No. I’ve compared two situations in which I am to be harmed.

Though I am not powerful enough to change the outcome in either situation, I think it is appropriate for us to talk about whether I deserve the harm in each of those situations.

You are strangely reluctant to talk about whether I deserve the punishment of hell: I understand that you think that God is the ultimate judge and the arbiter and all of that. I’m just asking if you agree with what he’s going to do (which is either send me to eternal pain or allow me to go to eternal pain, whichever formulation you prefer).

Look, I’ll even make it easy for you: you believe that your God is absolutely good and just, do you not? Then it follows that anything he does must be good and just. Someone who is just gives others exactly what they deserve. Thus, by your own definitions, you must believe that I deserve to suffer forever for merely not being convinced of a claim.

So why didn’t you just say that to begin with? Personally, I think it’s because there’s a part of you that knows perfectly well that it’s neither fair nor good.
 
Actually, it may be argued that even merely vincible ignorance would sufficiently lessen their culpability.
*This is the kind of postulating however that ,to me at least, boarders on a person being able to make a very relativistic argument and could lead a person to stumble so I personally would not go there. We can do the ‘what if’ 'dance all day long but truth is not dodgy. ultimately there WILL be a judgement. *

PS I’m not American…we still refer to “rubbish” in Australia.
I knew it!😃
 
How can you know that evil exists if you do not know the truth of the existence of good?
Again, this is like asking, “How can you know that “smelling bad” exists if you do not know that there is an “ultimate good smell”?”

There doesn’t need to be an “ultimate good smell” in order for us to identify the existence of smells that are good and bad, and in the same way, there doesn’t need to be an “ultimate good” in order for us to identify the existence of good and bad actions.
 
Fair enough at least you are honest! it is a very common question the “why would a loving God allow” question and the answer is already in this thread… basically because He loves us so much that He allows us total free will because only then when we freely choose Him does He ( and we) know that our love is genuine because he wants us to be His family not His slaves. …So natural progression will follow BUT how can a loving God allow …children to be harmed for example or any of the other evil…a tough one to swallow I know , but again it is our free will that chooses evil that allows evil to exist.

You never did answer my questions in purple to you on the morals issue. How can you know that evil exists if you do not know the truth of the existence of good? You can not say that you know what is good by human experience because that system leads to relativism and a rejection of ultimate truth. Simple example: Your red apple tastes good to me so I will take it and eat it…was that good for you?
In response to the morality question, I think that there are certain morals that are hardwired into the human brain. Whether God or evolution put them there is an entirely different question, but we have to have morals if we want our society to function. For example, take lying. If we did not have the assumption that when someone is talking they are telling the truth then society couldn’t function, because communication would have no purpose. The same goes for stealing. If we didn’t have a standard by which we live, which includes no stealing, we couldn’t have society. If I saw you and assumed you were going to steal my apple and whatever else you could get your hands on I’d want nothing to do with you, and we couldn’t form a society. Killing, raping, and most other big moral issues follow a similar pattern. It would simply be inconceivable for a society to work without these morals, and that’s why we have them.

And I know that evil exists because I see things that I know to be evil. How do I know them to be evil? I’m not sure. Instinct, or maybe society has put the knowledge into me. But I see pictures of concentration camps and I see evil. I see children forced into slavery, prostitution, and child soldiers, and I see evil. Maybe God put that sense of evil into me, or maybe society did. Maybe I’m just reacting in the way evolution hardwired me to react. But just because evil and good do exist, it doesn’t mean that ultimate truth does.
 
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