Well, time for this non-Byzantine to make a second comment. (Yeah, I know, “three jeers” … I can hears the groans already

… but anyway …)
That is heartbreaking. Really…it hurts to read. I believe you wrote once that a massive “Syriacization” is the only hope (if I don’t have you confused with someone else), but that is so remote…what can be done? That is one of the many, many problems with this idea of abandoning absolutely everything to the culture of the wider society (whether you are native to it or not) – once you have subscribed to the idea that it is essentially all the same, you lose the perspective that helps you see why a particular tradition is unique and irreplaceable. It becomes in a sense a self-fulfilling prophecy, because if it WASN’T all the same to begin with, eventually it will be, because no one will be around to remember the old ways. The Latinized (or Americanized, or whatever) way of doing things will be all you have, and all that anyone can remember or practice.
So as much as I’d like to phrase this in a way that does not sound like I’m picking on particular posters, I must vehemently disagree with the idea that Eastern or Oriental Christianity can be lived completely while divorced from the cultures in which it was forged. Certainly an Anglo-American person or a Hispanic person can be a part of those churches as much as anyone else (St. Maroun has a HUGE following in Mexico, for instance), but nativizing a church should not mean “make it more like/identical to the dominant rite and culture of the country in which it resides.” Syriac (Coptic/Ge’ez/Armenian/Arabic/whatever) should be taught and kept as a recognized treasure of the church and its history, and the continuation of its unique spirituality in its hymns and the roots of its practices. I realize that I am of an extreme minority position in this regard (as I have recently gotten into a bit of an argument with some Orientals over this; oops!), but I am not saying that any convert must learn these languages fluently in order to participate in these churches. I
am saying that just as I, a white person, cannot reasonably insist that the Hispanic Mass be divested of its character because I might show up to it one day and find brown people alienating, I cannot likewise expect, insist, or otherwise pressure the Syrians, Indians, Georgians, Ukrainians, etc. to do anything to their practices for my comfort. It shocks and scandalizes me on a personal level that anyone, no matter what their church affiliation, can possibly think that it should or could work this way. When I attended a Ruthenian church in Oregon, I was given a small printed booklet meant for visitors, with the prayers and hymns in Slavonic, with phonetic transliteration and translation in English included. The prayers and hymns themselves were still said in Slavonic, even as a sizable portion of the congregation seemed to be English-speaking monolinguals. So be it. It is better that we all keep whatever traditions are native to us, rather than change for anyone.
It is not for converts to change the church by the force of their complaining. And, honestly, in my experience (which I recognize is probably not normative, but nevertheless is the only experience I have), such things seem more often to be the concern of a particular segment of people who are already in the church under consideration, rather than the people who are coming in from outside of it. Nobody ever asked me if I would like to go to a “Latin” Mass that is ad populum, full of irreverence, with awful music that is indistinguishable from contemporary Protestant Christian radio pop, weak theology, etc. These are all things that are present to various degrees in various churches with various explanations that generally revolve around some middle-aged man’s idea of what will attract and keep the youth. Well, I can’t think of a nice way to say this, but to hell with that idea. If I got to a Latin Mass, I want it to reflect authentic Latin spirituality, and you can be damned sure that if I go to a Maronite liturgy, I want to hear Syriac hymns, not the same type of “hymn” I would hear at the debased Latin Mass that I don’t even think reflects ancient
Latin tradition!
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