Wives, Submit to your own husbands as to the Lord

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It certainly does seem a bit biased. I would welcome a text written by the pope. Perhaps he has done so. But please nothing from Trent or the 12th century or anything. How about John Paul or Benedict?

I see the husband as sort of the “spiritual” head of the family but not the authority of temporal matters- these should be shared.

I see it as my special responsibility to raise my daughter with a strong Catholic faith.
 
Severus, the link you referred to in your last post never got posted. Just the title, but no link.
It certainly does seem a bit biased.
The article seems a bit biased…? Ok, so skip the article-y bits and just read the quoted texts. If you’re real ambitious, just use the bibliography as a springboard to do your own research. 😉
I would welcome a text written by the pope. Perhaps he has done so. But please nothing from Trent or the 12th century or anything. How about John Paul or Benedict?
Sorry, magisterial teaching doesn’t work like that. Just because it’s “old” doesn’t mean it’s no longer relevant. Remember the Church is 2000+ years old her fundamental teachings have remained consistent from the time of the apostles.

But since you asked…here’s a re-post of two links I provided back in post #237. Both are letters from the late Holy Father JPII:

Letter to Women.

Mulieris Dignitatem: On the Dignity and Vocation of Women.

I quoted an excerpt from one of the letters here.

Shin posted some great quotes from the saints here.

For the basics, you can try this link: Scripture Catholic - The Husband as Head of the Family. The first part just lists the Scripture verses that we’ve all been talking about. Scroll down to the ECF’s excerpts.

Hope that helps! 🙂
 
Severus, the link you referred to in your last post never got posted. Just the title, but no link.

The article seems a bit biased…? Ok, so skip the article-y bits and just read the quoted texts. If you’re real ambitious, just use the bibliography as a springboard to do your own research. 😉

Sorry, magisterial teaching doesn’t work like that. Just because it’s “old” doesn’t mean it’s no longer relevant. Remember the Church is 2000+ years old her fundamental teachings have remained consistent from the time of the apostles.

But since you asked…here’s a re-post of two links I provided back in post #237. Both are letters from the late Holy Father JPII:

Letter to Women.

Mulieris Dignitatem: On the Dignity and Vocation of Women.

I quoted an excerpt from one of the letters here.

Shin posted some great quotes from the saints here.

For the basics, you can try this link: Scripture Catholic - The Husband as Head of the Family. The first part just lists the Scripture verses that we’ve all been talking about. Scroll down to the ECF’s excerpts.

Hope that helps! 🙂
Sorry below is the link.

cco.caltech.edu/~nmcenter/women.html Feonor, please read. There are letters from a Pope etc.
 
It certainly does seem a bit biased. I would welcome a text written by the pope. Perhaps he has done so. But please nothing from Trent or the 12th century or anything. How about John Paul or Benedict?

I see the husband as sort of the “spiritual” head of the family but not the authority of temporal matters- these should be shared.

I see it as my special responsibility to raise my daughter with a strong Catholic faith.
Apologies for the misspelling of your name. Please see this link:-

cco.caltech.edu/~nmcenter/women.html
 
It certainly does seem a bit biased. I would welcome a text written by the pope. Perhaps he has done so. But please nothing from Trent or the 12th century or anything. How about John Paul or Benedict?

I see the husband as sort of the “spiritual” head of the family but not the authority of temporal matters- these should be shared.

I see it as my special responsibility to raise my daughter with a strong Catholic faith.
There is an encylical by Pope Pius XI from the 1930’s called Casti Connubii. It’s full of explanation on this subject… You can find and English translation at this link:

jingalls.com/holy_father/…nnubii_en.html

Hope this helps you.

– Nicole
 
Thanks severus. 🙂 This is actually a really good resource. Although whoever compiled this obviously has their own bias, I don’t see anything that contradicts Ephesians 5.
You are welcome. This is not an issue of saying those are not the words said but what they mean. With regard to bias, everyone can come up with something to support what they say. This is a repectable source (the complier). and the letters are not to be frowned on. With respect, I will continue to choose to take the position summed up there.
 
You are welcome. This is not an issue of saying those are not the words said but what they mean. With regard to bias, everyone can come up with something to support what they say. This is a repectable source (the complier). and the letters are not to be frowned on. With respect, I will continue to choose to take the position summed up there.
Several of the links were broken, but reading from the ones that weren’t, didn’t seem to reject the traditional view of Ephesians 5 either. It’s basically the same writings by the same popes, meaning the same things. Perhaps the perspective we’re coming from counts for a lot of what we see.
 
Several of the links were broken, but reading from the ones that weren’t, didn’t seem to reject the traditional view of Ephesians 5 either. It’s basically the same writings by the same popes, meaning the same things. Perhaps the perspective we’re coming from counts for a lot of what we see.
Which links were broken please? Were we reading the same thing?🙂 And which perspectives would they be? I start off any discussion with an open but not a blank mind.
 
I don’t see what all the fuss is about. The wife obeys her husband, and he lives and dies for her. Doesn’t seem one sided to me. If anything it is unfair to men. I don’t see St Paul telling the women to be crucified for their husbands.
 
I don’t see what all the fuss is about. The wife obeys her husband, and he lives and dies for her. Doesn’t seem one sided to me. If anything it is unfair to men. I don’t see St Paul telling the women to be crucified for their husbands.
Very true, and well said! 🙂
 
I don’t see what all the fuss is about. The wife obeys her husband, and he lives and dies for her. Doesn’t seem one sided to me. If anything it is unfair to men. I don’t see St Paul telling the women to be crucified for their husbands.
Of course there will be a fuss-no one likes to be told to obey someone even if they had less brains just because of their gender. If only it were as simple as you say. There is nothing unfair on the husband’s side. In real life these days, its safe to say no husband needs to worry about being crucified for his wife so I dont know what you are on about.
 
I don’t see what all the fuss is about. The wife obeys her husband, and he lives and dies for her. Doesn’t seem one sided to me. If anything it is unfair to men. I don’t see St Paul telling the women to be crucified for their husbands.
So are you saying wives should obey their husbands because their husbands are willing to and queueing to be crucified or to suffer such other horrible deaths for them?
 
This has been explained several times here, but I guess it was missed.

the word “obey” I don’t believe is in scripture in this context.

What we are talking about is the husband being willing to get his wife to heaven, even if it kills him.

So, a wife should be willing to be "under the mission of " her husband. He is going to be held accountable for getting his family to heaven. When he acts as spiritual head of the household, this is his goal…therefore, submitting to him should not be a problem.
 
This has been explained several times here, but I guess it was missed.

the word “obey” I don’t believe is in scripture in this context.

What we are talking about is the husband being willing to get his wife to heaven, even if it kills him.

So, a wife should be willing to be "under the mission of " her husband. He is going to be held accountable for getting his family to heaven. When he acts as spiritual head of the household, this is his goal…therefore, submitting to him should not be a problem.
Couldn’t they both get each other to heaven? Why would women (or is it only wives), need help from men/husbands on their spiritual education or help with their redemption?
 
Couldn’t they both get each other to heaven? Why would women (or is it only wives), need help from men/husbands on their spiritual education or help with their redemption?
Because that is the whole point of marriage. That is what marriage is for… to sanctify each other and get each other to heaven.

You are completely missing the point here. It is a BEAUTIFUL thing the way God designed this, I honestly have no idea why a woman would object to such a thing.

The man is the initiator of the gift. Women are the receiver of the gift. He holds a particular responsibility. Please read theology of the body.
 
Because that is the whole point of marriage. That is what marriage is for… to sanctify each other and get each other to heaven.

You are completely missing the point here. It is a BEAUTIFUL thing the way God designed this, I honestly have no idea why a woman would object to such a thing.

The man is the initiator of the gift. Women are the receiver of the gift. He holds a particular responsibility. Please read theology of the body.
I have no issue with your first sentence as it stands.

God’s creation is beautiful and so is God’s design. All that has been messed up by Man’s fall.

What gift is this please? Both men and women should give and receive, that would be a beautiful thing.

So are you saying its all women should wait to receive this bounty or is it just married women? What happens to non married men and women?
 
I have no issue with your first sentence as it stands.

God’s creation is beautiful and so is God’s design. All that has been messed up by Man’s fall.

What gift is this please? Both men and women should give and receive, that would be a beautiful thing.

So are you saying its all women should wait to receive this bounty or is it just married women? What happens to non married men and women?
The gift of self. Please read Theology of the body. We are talking about the interpretation of Eph 5.
 
This has been explained several times here, but I guess it was missed.

the word “obey” I don’t believe is in scripture in this context.

What we are talking about is the husband being willing to get his wife to heaven, even if it kills him.

So, a wife should be willing to be "under the mission of " her husband. He is going to be held accountable for getting his family to heaven. When he acts as spiritual head of the household, this is his goal…therefore, submitting to him should not be a problem.
This makes sense to me as you are emphasizing the spiritual aspect of the father’s role.

I really can’t swallow the temporal aspect which some of you guys may be putting forward. I say this in respect. Really it sounds like you guys, “gals” have wonderful marriages. 🙂
 
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