I’m directing Catholics here, not protestants. Do you propose yourself to be Catholic but you ultimately reject/ disagree with one or more teachings? Please tell me what you are unhappy about.
Formal and emotional post are welcome, if you feel you might go deeply into it then don’t worry about that, just go ahead and do so.
If there is anything the Church teaches that you don’t agree with please tell me.
I apologize for jumping in here, but I did not see this thread until now. Without going into personal specifics, I will make a couple of observations.
First, many people “remain” Catholic despite disagreeing with the Church’s teachings since to them there is more important, even more critical, reasons for being Catholic than agreeing with a doctrine. The Church encompasses the followers of Jesus and His Gospel, who demonstrate that allegiance through their actions and lives, not by just what they believe. Catholics who may not agree with every teaching of their Church (or totally understand or care about them) don’t see that fact as making them any less of a Catholic. They ARE Catholic, based on their Baptism, on the Sacraments they have received, and on their identity.
Second, there are many, many Catholics who just DON’T KNOW what their Church teaches. Most Catholics have, at best, an elementary understanding of their faith (most on this forum are the exception to that “rule”). They have not grown in their faith or understanding of God and the Gospel since childhood. And, unfortunately, they generally are not expected to. For that reason, and also due to lack of interest in dogma and doctrines, many Catholics aren’t concerned about Church teachings. But they still see themselves as “good” Catholics, again based on that simple level of understanding that they have.
Third, there are many Catholics (including a few I have encountered here) who insist that the Church teaches what it actually doesn’t. They think that because a saint or doctor of the Church said something 500 or 1000 years ago that it must be Church doctrine. Or they follow one doctrinal interpretation that they like over other interpretations that they don’t. Or they don’'t consider some of what the Church actually teaches today as valid, but prefer to abide by earlier teachings (or interpretation of teachings) which the Church no longer holds. I am not sure why that is the case, but the evidence for it is all over the place. Again, for most Sunday-go-to-Mass Catholics, none of this is important. They don’t care whether the ideas of Aquinas are more valid than those of Origen, or of Augustine, or of a Gregory, or of Karl Rahner.
Finally, many Catholics are such in name and appearance only (one could call them “shallow Catholics”, lacking real depth). They do not participate in the life of their parish community, they stress the initiation Sacraments but not much else (have the baby baptized but don’t actually go to Mass), do not think much about their faith outside of Church (when they do attend), or live the Gospel in their daily lives. Are those people really Catholic? I don’t know, but there are a lot of them that are labeled as such.
As to the survey, I could not answer it since the options were so limited and none seemed to apply to me or many other Catholics I know (FYI, I am a Catholic, despite what many seem to think or infer from my past posts). I think the overall point I want to make is that many Protestants (and a fair number of Catholics) don’t understand the “attachment” that some people have to the Catholic Church, despite their not being 100% in agreement with every teaching, or questioning certain practices. Most people who leave the Church do not do so because of doctrines but for other reasons. Survey after survey shows that. Those of us who may question or disagree with some Church teachings or practices stick with Her, simply because it is our faith home, too, and Jesus invites us to be here…and I, for one, cannot say no to His call.