Good afternoon.
Good point about adolescent rebellion but I think this is probably like abusive parents tending to have been abused themselves by their own parents. Bullies pass on their behavior when the children are too young to understand it’s wrong (as in Ex 34, “he punishes the children and their children for the sin of the parents to the third and fourth”) so I think anything which helps them make a break is good.
I got no problem telling them they are evil unless and until they realize the error of their ways and change.
We’ll have to disagree on that then. Condemn their behavior, not them, but unless we condemn their behavior, what right have we to say they’re wrong?
Well, this is the sticky part, though. If you are telling them that they are evil, how do you do this without expressing condemnation of them
as people.? Really, is there any more condemning thing we can say about a person than to call them evil?
Can’t really see how or why we should forgive them until they change. Yes a loving approach pays dividends with normal people, but these guys are not normal. It’s a bit like trying to use love to get Hannibal Lecter to see it our way. Best of luck but I’m thinking it just won’t work.
Another great point, but I’m pretty sure the Lecter character had a pathology, an inability to empathize normally, which happens of course. It may be unwise to express to a person that you forgive, but it always does us good to forgive people from the heart. Jesus asks us to forgive with this criteria:
Mark 11:25New International Version (NIV)
25 And when you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone, forgive them, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins.”
Jesus invites us to take a step toward holiness. How loving is our Father? Does he love unconditionally? Well, our answer is going to be a matter of projection. If I refused to forgive one of my own children for taking on racist leanings, then it is very likely that I would surmise that the Father would not love or forgive me for having a racist ideology. In fact, if I hold any condition of loving someone, then it is almost impossible to believe that God would love me if I held the same condition.
In my own view, it is not
wrong to love people conditionally, that is not what I read from the Gospel, but like I said, Jesus
invites us to a deeper holiness.
Thanks

, it’s an interesting topic.
Btw from what I’ve seen, there is a growing understanding of the neuroscience of racism, and hopes that it can be cured. For instance research in Spain on overcoming subconscious fears using virtual reality:
But I think probably white supremacism goes far deeper and is not so easy.
I was brought up with a racist mentality. Through prayer, I was healed. I
wanted to overcome. If I was personally condemned for having a racist mentality, there might have been some resistance on my part, especially if I had hurtful race-related experiences in my past.
For a person who holds white-supremacist views, to overcome he will have to forgive those people who have offended him in the past. Yes, it is difficult. He may not see a reason to forgive, or thinks that he will not forgive until the offender repents. If he holds those views, he is stuck, just like all of us who hold onto grudges.
That’s what racism is, right? The kind of racism that involves anger and condemnation of groups of people is a big grudge.