Thanks for your thoughts.
I don’t think people should commit suicide because there is so much left to be experienced. Life has its rough times, but there are also many happy moments. I think that most people who commit suicide have the false belief that they will never be happy again. It can be hard to look optimistically at the future when one is miserable, but I think that the future is typically brighter than people realize.
These are nice thoughts, but in trying to talk someone out of suicide - they are weak conjectures. The suicidal person more often is afraid that things will get worse. The fact is, things do get worse very often. But regardless, what good are these “happy moments”? They’re going to end anyway, so why not now with suicide? The only hope that atheism can give is that there might be something a little better than what you have now – but no guarantee. This is not a reason for living at all though. It’s going to be more pain and suffering – that is certain. There might be some happiness mixed in, but the suicidal person cannot deal with the pain that will certainly come in the future. Why should he or she deal with that? There is no ultimate purpose for the atheist – so suicide goes along with it.
I see them as misguided people who thought suicide was the answer, and in doing so gave up the only shot at happiness that they would ever have.
But I think the problem is that suicide is the answer for atheism. There is no guesswork involved (if atheism is true). Whatever happiness you gain in life, no matter how much you have – it’s all going to disappear quickly with death. Why not just have it disappear now?
I would say though that in extreme cases, suicide may be a reasonable course. If someone was absolutely certain that they were about to die a slow and excruciatingly painful death, I don’t think it’s unreasonable for them to consider suicide.
It is absolutely certain that every person is going to face some pain and eventually die. I see this idea supporting suicide as an answer for just about everyone.
Atheism itself doesn’t have any stance on suicide, just like theism doesn’t. However, some theists, as well as some atheists, have moral beliefs in which suicide is wrong.
Catholicism does have a stance on suicide, of course. But Catholicism also proposes a definite meaning and purpose to life here on earth as well as after death. This gives meaning to suffering and to the lack of happiness (or transient nature of happiness) that life affords to many people.
Atheism can only hold out some hope that there might be happy moments (but there might not be also). These happy moments are passing and might actually make the suffering even more painful.
It’s like a person who regrets winning the lottery because after losing all the money he is more unhappy than he was when he didn’t have it. Or a man who marries a beautiful wife and has some brief happiness – but then she leaves him for another guy and he has profound sorrow. He may say that it would have been better if he didn’t have that little happiness.
So a little, fleeting happiness, can be much more painful for a person to consider.
People want the happiness to last. But with atheism, it does not last and cannot last very long. Suicide puts and end to the ups and the downs. It’s not just the downs that the person wants to avoid. But the rising of hopes and then crushing of hopes – that is worse.