You’ve summed up both my thoughts and your’s in a wonderfully pithy, punchy, succinct and a downright “keyboard efficient” way.
Touche!
Of course, that “proof” doesn’t actually prove that (“at most” or otherwise) God is not loving. It merely proves that the “prover” doesn’t know what “God’s love” means.
All atheistic “proofs” (of anything related to God) are ALWAYS based on incorrect meanings of foundational terms.
Once you find the term or terms which are simply wrong, the “proof” becomes simply nonsense.
Then, because the so-called atheist will not agree that the disputed terms could POSSIBLY have any meaning but their chosen ones, the “discussion” turns into an atheistic shout-down fest, which would lead to actual physical violence if it were in a venue where that would be possible.
Agreeing to disagree is not allowed in a so-called atheist’s “ethics”. All basic (axiomatic) disagreements are existentially dangerous (to mankind as a whole, where “mankind” means those “enlightened humans of the atheistic persuasion”) and necessitate “surgical removal” of the offending “non-mankind oriented” person.
…but then, I ramble on again, don’t I?

Not all so-called atheists are “slavers”, are they? Or, is that why I call them “so-called” atheists? Are all people who call themselves atheists really atheists? No. Are all REAL atheists really “slavers”? Yes.