Bishop meeting to avoid gay issue

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m134e5:
Did the incidence of homosexual abuse spike in the 60’s, or did the reports of those incidents spke in the 60’s?
The reports came much later. The abuse spiked in the 60s.
It may seem like hair splitting to some, but did anyone ever think that we have groups like the rainbow sash movement because they feel their very existance as human beings and children of God is being challenged by otherwise well-informed Catholics?

If you prevent men who struggle with homosexuality and are chaste from being priests or religious, then you just might be banning them from the kind of life- the focus on prayer and spirituality and the Sacraments- that will help save their souls.

The priesthood isn’t only a vocation of service to others- it is something to which God calls certain people, knowing that they themselves would grow in holiness better in that state of life- while at the same time guiding others.
That someone thinks they are called does not mean they are called. The radical feminists also claim God is calling them to be priestesses. One can save their soul without being a priest.
How will we increase vocations if young men see the priesthood as a “gay” vocation?
 
trust us to fix it The Washington Times reports that “the U.S. Catholic bishops will sidestep the issue of whether gay men should become priests at their semiannual meeting,” which began today at the Chicago Fairmont.
And why, boys and girls, was it a foregone conclusion that the bishops would “sidestep” the issue? Because the question of whether gays should be ordained cannot be addressed without first addressing a considerably more explosive question: the number of bishop-disputants who are themselves gay and have a profound personal interest that there be no public examination of the connections between their sexual appetites, their convictions, and their conduct of office.
Let’s do a little stock-taking of those U.S. bishops who are publicly known to be gay:
cwnews.com/offtherecord/offtherecord.cfm

Take a look at the long list of these bishops that are at this site. It is really amazing!
 
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otm:
The statistics are all over the map, from a low of 20% to as high an estimate of 80% of priests being homosexual in inclination,…
Maybe we can estimate this percentage. Studies have shown that gays are 1-3% of the general population (or 2-6% of the general male population). Other studies have consistently shown that male homosexuals have been involved in 20-40% of child sexual abuse cases. Since they were involved in 81% of the clergy cases, by extrapolation, this indicates they make up 8-12% of the clergy population. According to the John Jay report, the 4692 priests accused of abuse represents 3-6% of the priest population (2.5-5% adjusting for the abusers of males). So 30-40% of gay priests will be abusers. Ordaining men from a population with this kind of risk to kids is unacceptable.

frc.org/get.cfm?i=WA03I35#WA03I35

usccb.org/nrb/johnjaystudy/prev2.pdf
 
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How will we increase vocations if young men see the priesthood as a “gay” vocation?
Fr Cozzens book “The Changing Face of the Priesthood” is an excellent one on this very subject.
 
I have known this to be a problem, and have even posted on it. But this is the first thread that actually SCARED me. I don’t know if I will ever be able to go to Mass again and feel the same.

What can be done? When will lay people and orthodox hetero priests stand up against it? I felt the same as the consensus of posters here when I read a news story on the USCCB meeting. Skepticism.

The only hope we have is prayer and Rome. Will Pope Benedict XVI intervene?

Jim
 
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LtTony:
I have known this to be a problem, and have even posted on it. But this is the first thread that actually SCARED me. I don’t know if I will ever be able to go to Mass again and feel the same.
Be not afraid. Christians of all faiths in many generations have faced a great deal.

Why would Mass “not be the same” - Jesus Christ was born, ministered, died and resurrected. It is the truth around which we celebrate the liturgy.
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LtTony:
What can be done? When will lay people and orthodox hetero priests stand up against it? I felt the same as the consensus of posters here when I read a news story on the USCCB meeting. Skepticism.
It didn’t happen in one day, one year – it won’t be cured any quicker. At this point with the new pope, the national councils are still “feeling their way” and if I judge the bunch in Washington correctly, they are waiting for some sign from Rome. If I judge Rome correctly , they are waiting to see what the individual bishops do in their coountries.

Retain your skepticism about some. Discern and watch and wait along with the rest of us.
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LtTony:
The only hope we have is prayer and Rome. Will Pope Benedict XVI intervene?
When wasn’t that the case? – prayer and looking to leadership both within the country and from Rome. And always keep in mind, sometimes the most effective things done are done behind the scenes, rather than in front of the world camera.

We have some fine bishops floating through the milieu these days – we have a wonderful new pope. Let us pray that jointly some good things can come.
 
Hag:

What’s the line? “Thanks. I needed that?”🙂

I have had most of the same thoughts you expressed in your message of utmost reassurance. But when he reading this thread late the other night, I forgot them.
The whole thing really got to me for a moment. I still think rightious laypeople and clerics – respectfully and prayerfully – need to stand up.

Jim
 
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LtTony:
Hag:

What’s the line? “Thanks. I needed that?”🙂

I have had most of the same thoughts you expressed in your message of utmost reassurance. But when he reading this thread late the other night, I forgot them.
The whole thing really got to me for a moment. I still think rightious laypeople and clerics – respectfully and prayerfully – need to stand up.

Jim
All of us have been through the same process - when you read some of this stuff - you want to scream, but here’s an interesting bit of behind the scenes look from someone who was involved with the dioceses in the US on this matter:

post-gazette.com/pg/05170/524069.stm
 
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HagiaSophia:
All of us have been through the same process - when you read some of this stuff - you want to scream, but here’s an interesting bit of behind the scenes look from someone who was involved with the dioceses in the US on this matter:

post-gazette.com/pg/05170/524069.stm
Good article, thanks for posting. I think among the important points made, the myth that bishops did nothing in the face of the problem was disputed effectively. As the writer said many of them thought this was treatable, a ‘sexual pecadillo’ and not an ingrained behavior pattern. Also since the bishops didn’t talk to each other, they didn’t realize they were "in the middle of an epidemic.’ I also appreciated the comment on the excessive awards. This is definitely an article to refer to again.

Lisa N
 
Lisa N:
Good article, thanks for posting. I think among the important points made, the myth that bishops did nothing in the face of the problem was disputed effectively. As the writer said many of them thought this was treatable, a ‘sexual pecadillo’ and not an ingrained behavior pattern. Also since the bishops didn’t talk to each other, they didn’t realize they were "in the middle of an epidemic.’ I also appreciated the comment on the excessive awards. This is definitely an article to refer to again.

Lisa N
You know Lisa, I find it difficult to believe that they really thought this was treatable, especially the real pedophile cases. As far back as I can remember, the conventional wisdom has been that it is untreatable. Why didn’t the Bishop know that? To me, it just seems like a convenient excuse to say “we were relying on the advice of experts. And we now know that advice was bad.” Baloney.
 
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miguel:
You know Lisa, I find it difficult to believe that they really thought this was treatable, especially the real pedophile cases. As far back as I can remember, the conventional wisdom has been that it is untreatable. Why didn’t the Bishop know that? To me, it just seems like a convenient excuse to say “we were relying on the advice of experts. And we now know that advice was bad.” Baloney.
To an extent I agree it’s a bit of a copout. However given that much of the abuse happened thirty years ago, the belief about a ‘talking cure’ for sexual abuse (any kind!) was different than it is now. I just remember how at that time people simply didn’t BELIEVE this sort of thing happened, especially not with a religious person. We were very naive at that time believe me. Had someone told me in 1974 that we’d have homosexuals getting married and on prime time TV I wouldn’t have believed it either.
Lisa N
 
Lisa N:
Good article, thanks for posting. I think among the important points made, the myth that bishops did nothing in the face of the problem was disputed effectively. As the writer said many of them thought this was treatable, a ‘sexual pecadillo’ and not an ingrained behavior pattern. Also since the bishops didn’t talk to each other, they didn’t realize they were "in the middle of an epidemic.’ I also appreciated the comment on the excessive awards. This is definitely an article to refer to again.

Lisa N
Right on…not only were bishops told it was treatable, they were assured these men could return to ministry. IOW this problem was treated pretty much as alcoholism used to be thought of before we understood that it is a disease and that simple contrition or prayer will not provide the “sure cure.” Had I been a bishop, sent a person for treatment and evaluation and been told, it was done and over, and that this person was now “restored” - I’m afraid at that point in time, I would have believed the “experts”.

We all know better now but it’s tragic hindsight. And then there are the two groups - individuals who had rare or occasional lapses vs. the cunning predator. Neither should be in ministry but there is a difference.
 
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miguel:
You know Lisa, I find it difficult to believe that they really thought this was treatable, especially the real pedophile cases. As far back as I can remember, the conventional wisdom has been that it is untreatable. Why didn’t the Bishop know that? To me, it just seems like a convenient excuse to say “we were relying on the advice of experts. And we now know that advice was bad.” Baloney.
Sorry I don’t know how old you are but for years we were assured that it was treatable – the first I ever heard that it was not was as the scandals began to break. I also think that when medical or psychological “experts” tell you something after they have treated a patient, unless you have better expertise, you do tend to believe they know what they are talking about.
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Lisa N:
We were very naive at that time believe me. Had someone told me in 1974 that we’d have homosexuals getting married and on prime time TV I wouldn’t have believed it either.
Lisa N
This occurs in every generation prior to current times - we were much more sheltered in every way, through media, radio discussions etc. I mean no one even realized this stuff existed much less was going on. One child murder anywhere in the country made national headlines for umpteen weeks.It was a time of “innocence” – remember when Desi and Luci were “expecting” they couldn’t use the word “pregnant” on tv and had to hire a representative from Protestant, Catholic and Jewish ministry to help them oversee the scripts so they didn’t “offend” in their family show.

When the Moon is Blue came out, there was such an uproar, my aunt tells me that priests addressed from the parish pulpit at every Mass. I mean talk about “sheltered”…

During Queen Mary’s reign in England, one clergyman reports he could not get help for the prostitutes he was helping get off the street, because Mary refused to believe that such a thing even existed - in her mind, he was exaggerating. She simply could not accept it.
 
Lisa N:
To an extent I agree it’s a bit of a copout. However given that much of the abuse happened thirty years ago, the belief about a ‘talking cure’ for sexual abuse (any kind!) was different than it is now. I just remember how at that time people simply didn’t BELIEVE this sort of thing happened, especially not with a religious person. We were very naive at that time believe me. Had someone told me in 1974 that we’d have homosexuals getting married and on prime time TV I wouldn’t have believed it either.
Lisa N
In the case of religious persons, I think you’re right. The thought that a priest could do something like this was almost sacrilegious. But child molester’s, in general, have been regarded as incurable for at least as long as I can remember. And that would include the 70’s when these abuse cases were peaking. At least that was my perception. So it’s hard for me to understand how any Bishop could move an abuser from parish to parish on the advice of experts, when that advice ran counter to the prevailing wisdom.
 
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HagiaSophia:
Sorry I don’t know how old you are but for years we were assured that it was treatable – the first I ever heard that it was not was as the scandals began to break. I also think that when medical or psychological “experts” tell you something after they have treated a patient, unless you have better expertise, you do tend to believe they know what they are talking about.
:mad:
Mid 40’s. As a former Wanderer reader, I can tell you that rumors about the clergy have been circulating for quite a while. But are you saying you thought it was curable up until 2002, when the scandal erupted in the main stream media? I can honestly say I never thought that. I’m not speaking from hindsight either. How often over the years have you seen people protesting paroled child molester’s taking up residence in their neighborhoods? Why do you think people protest this? Because they trust the “experts”? And how often have you heard of these parolees repeating their offenses?
 
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miguel:
Mid 40’s. As a former Wanderer reader, I can tell you that rumors about the clergy have been circulating for quite a while. But are you saying you thought it was curable up until 2002, when the scandal erupted in the main stream media? I can honestly say I never thought that. I’m not speaking from hindsight either. How often over the years have you seen people protesting paroled child molester’s taking up residence in their neighborhoods? Why do you think people protest this? Because they trust the “experts”?
I’m going by memory now but “rumors about the clergy” that I read and heard about were about “personal involvement” and behavior rather than child abuse. I do recollect Greeley warning us about “lavender rectories” but no one paid much attention as far as I could see.

I recollect that it was somewhere in the 90’s when I began to hear words like recidivism, non treatable, repeated behavior, etc. Now maybe I was asleep, or geographically my part of the planet didn’t get hit with any of this stuff early on but I hadn’t a clue. And when it did begin to filter down, I thought it meant a rare exception, some horrendous character floating around — I simply never dreamed what the “whole story” was. (Head still swivels 360 every once inawhile when I read some of this stuff).
 
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miguel:
In the case of religious persons, I think you’re right. The thought that a priest could do something like this was almost sacrilegious. But child molester’s, in general, have been regarded as incurable for at least as long as I can remember. And that would include the 70’s when these abuse cases were peaking. At least that was my perception. So it’s hard for me to understand how any Bishop could move an abuser from parish to parish on the advice of experts, when that advice ran counter to the prevailing wisdom.
You are confusing the incidents with the reports.

The abusive acts appear to have peaked in the 70’s. However, it wasn’t really until the 80’s that the first cases appeared - about incidents many years previous to that. There just weren’t - and still aren’t - many 20 year olds coming forward and reporting an abusive act when they were 5 to 15 years younger.

The first lawsuits I recall started in the 1980’s. Prior to that, there may have been reports to the chancery, or the bishop, by family members who discovered the abuse of a relative. However, these cases weren’t in the press; they were handled very quitetly. So there really wasn’t anything to remember from the 70’s.
 
HagiaSophia said:
— I simply never dreamed what the “whole story” was. (Head still swivels 360 every once inawhile when I read some of this stuff).

I think the full extent of this thing caught all of us off guard. Only God knows the “whole story”.😦
 
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otm:
You are confusing the incidents with the reports.

The abusive acts appear to have peaked in the 70’s. However, it wasn’t really until the 80’s that the first cases appeared - about incidents many years previous to that. There just weren’t - and still aren’t - many 20 year olds coming forward and reporting an abusive act when they were 5 to 15 years younger.

The first lawsuits I recall started in the 1980’s. Prior to that, there may have been reports to the chancery, or the bishop, by family members who discovered the abuse of a relative. However, these cases weren’t in the press; they were handled very quitetly. So there really wasn’t anything to remember from the 70’s.
I wasn’t saying I had any knowledge of the clergy abuse at that time. The only reason I brought up the 70’s was to point out that my perception of child molestation as “incurable” goes back a ways. And for whatever reason, maybe I’m totally alone here, I thought this was common knowledge. Consequently, in hindsight, I’m wondering why some of these Bishops didn’t also know it when they were moving abusers from parish to parish. Yeah, I know the excuse is that they were acting on the advice of “experts.” But I’m having a hard time with that one.
 
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