At least according to Bruce Fisher, if you suspect she might be “rebelling”, the last thing you want to do is act like an overbearing parent. That’s what she’s trying to get away from.You guys are so good to me.
Sounds pretty darn familiar…
As far as depression…I don’t know. Maybe.
You know what, if you can get alone, just be yourself. You have to have enough confidence in yourself to remember that you are the person she fell inlove with in the first place. Dont try to be someone else either. I think that when we say you have to be tough thats not to say change who you are, just know that she deserves to be loved but so do you. You are a good person too, and dont let anyone **** on you either, You know what i mean. Your feelings are just as important as hers, and she needs to know this. Do you think it could be a self esteem with her. I dont know how old you guys are but im guessing late twentys or early thirtys. I know myself i got married young and i was used to getting alot of attention from guys and my husband, He was always jealous. Then the kids came and then sometimes you feel like they got you where they want you. And sometimes you feel like you have to prove hey look other guys still want me. Just guessing. But i can remember feeling that way. Sometimes you get too comfortable and forget you still have to find a way to show you care. money, work, its like life is sometimes passing you by. I think it really normal thats why its called the 7 year itch.It was definitely out of the blue. It’s so out of character for her, I have no idea where it came from.
There IS a possibility of this Saturday night, if my babysitter (my mom and dad) can keep the kids.
I know I’m talking tough, but when this comes down to it, it’s not going to be easy at all.
7 year itch…It started 2 months after our 7th anniversary. All of what you describe is accurate. We’ve been married 8 years now. I’m 36, she’s 32.You know what, if you can get alone, just be yourself. You have to have enough confidence in yourself to remember that you are the person she fell inlove with in the first place. Dont try to be someone else either. I think that when we say you have to be tough thats not to say change who you are, just know that she deserves to be loved but so do you. You are a good person too, and dont let anyone **** on you either, You know what i mean. Your feelings are just as important as hers, and she needs to know this. Do you think it could be a self esteem with her. I dont know how old you guys are but im guessing late twentys or early thirtys. I know myself i got married young and i was used to getting alot of attention from guys and my husband, He was always jealous. Then the kids came and then sometimes you feel like they got you where they want you. And sometimes you feel like you have to prove hey look other guys still want me. Just guessing. But i can remember feeling that way. Sometimes you get too comfortable and forget you still have to find a way to show you care. money, work, its like life is sometimes passing you by. I think it really normal thats why its called the 7 year itch.
Thats kind of what i thought. Sometimes i think people read more into things then what are there. Dont get me wrong i could be wrong and it may be deeper, but it may not be, you know what i mean. Its just ive been there, and am just trying to show you another point if view. been there done that got the t shirt kind of view.7 year itch…It started 2 months after our 7th anniversary. All of what you describe is accurate. We’ve been married 8 years now. I’m 36, she’s 32.
But, if that’s the case, why does she want to hold on to any sort of relationship with this dirtbag?Thats kind of what i thought. Sometimes i think people read more into things then what are there. Dont get me wrong i could be wrong and it may be deeper, but it may not be, you know what i mean. Its just ive been there, and am just trying to show you another point if view. been there done that got the t shirt kind of view.
Easy he is giving her a way to escape from her life. He is telling her everything she wants to hear. Shes beautiful, sexy, but she is only seeing what she wants to see right now. She needs someone or something to get her to open her eyes before its too late. He is everything that her life isnt now. Easy. Think about it , hes older right, he like others has been there. He knows how to play her.But, if that’s the case, why does she want to hold on to any sort of relationship with this dirtbag?
I don’t know HOW. I see old pictures/videos of myself, and I’m so happy and full of life, not a care in the world. And, I don’t know how to get back to that person. I’m so destroyed inside.He could sense her low self esteem and started courting your wife - and she was willing to be courted! You have to win her back.
i wouldnt do itYou know, I’ve never told her she was anything less than beautiful or sexy. Even at 9 months pregnant (which oddly enough, was one of the times I was absolutely the MOST attracted to her).
I think the “eye opener” is coming soon. I’m getting a bunch of advice that I need to tell this other man’s wife. I’m scared as heck to do it, but I know she needs to know.