When I recently saw the announcement that CAF is shutting down, it was like an unexpected punch to the gut. I understand their reasons, and I admit that I have not financially supported the forums. I also am not very active here – my activity tends to come in spurts, with long breaks in between. But I have been visiting and posting on these forums since 2005 (I think), and many times I have found very helpful advice and support here when I was facing a tough decision or a tough situation. I also have tried to give back by providing advice and (name removed by moderator)ut where I felt I could be helpful.
Before CAF, there was Steve Ray’s Catholic Convert Forum, which was also a great community, but I tried to find it recently, and it apparently has shut down (perhaps long ago). Now without CAF, I’m not sure where to go for good online discussions with other Catholics. I don’t do non-anonymous social media (Facebook, etc.). I see that someone has recommended a Catholic forum on Reddit, and I may check it out. But I would feel better about a forum on a Catholic site, rather than a subforum on a secular site.
I also see CAF closing as part of a larger problem with finding good Catholic internet sites these days. It seems that so much of online discussion and content has moved to corporatized platforms like Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, etc., and so many people are using smartphone apps to access everything rather than a web browser, that the types of discussion forums and blogs that nourished my faith in past years seem harder to find. And many of the great Catholic and pro-life sites of the 2000-2009 decade no longer exist, or are shadows of their former selves. Perhaps it’s just that in the busy-ness of everyday life, I have failed to seek out enough good new sites to replace the old ones. Maybe I just need to spend a bit more time searching, and not stay stuck in the past.
To all of you regulars, semi-regulars, and anyone else this applies to, thank you from the bottom of my heart for all of the times that you have given me good advice and counsel when I needed it. I hope that I have been able to do the same for some of you from time to time. And even after the forum shuts down, I would appreciate your continued prayers for my wife, who is currently receiving treatment for breast cancer.