Maybe I missed something here.
I think you misunderstand me. I have no problem with them asking for the Church to change its teaching. I am also not saying that the Church can never change any of its teaching, or that the Church should never change any of its teachings.
What I am criticizing is the notion that it is somehow improper for those that disagree with the Church to
ask for a change. Anyone can ask for a change. They might not get what they ask for, but they can ask and explain why they are asking.
I am also criticizing a different kind of dissent from the Church, one that is both more common and more accepted in many circles. That is the trend of some Catholics simply
asserting that the Church teaches as they wished it did. There are many examples of that on this forum pretty much daily – asserting that the Pope’s teaching on the death penalty, or his recent encyclicals are “false” for example, and therefore may be rejected by faithful Catholics.
My point is simple - the Church, through the bishops and the Pope, have teaching authority. We hope they are generally correct; we recognize they are sometimes wrong. Petitioning for change is an acceptable approach to disagreement. Simply declaring that one can effectively overrule the authority of the Pope and the bishops is not an acceptable approach, in my view. I don’t think the German women that are the subject of this thread are doing that.
To be clear, each person must follow their own conscience and comport their actions accordingly. I am not talking about that. I am talking about the assertion by some that they can speak authoritatively for the Church, over against the Pope and the bishops.