My cousin told me that Catholicism has man made laws, rules, that are not in the Bible. I asked her like what??? I told her that we also go by tradition. I am dumbfounded as she went through 12 yrs of Catholic school and 2 yrs of bible study goes to Mass most Sunday’s. The phone conversation was mind boggling. To my mind she thinks/believes like a protestant. She said she loves Catholicism and I replied that she only loves the parts she agrees with.

I know I shouldn’t have said that but-----if it walks like a duck kind of thing.
The thing is, I can understand her viewpoint when I think about it. If one doesn’t have faith in the Church, then it does look like manmade rules. I mean, when one questions a teaching, the answer is that God somehow told them in some way or another or enlightened them, through the Holy Spirit. Well, to someone who doesn’t trust or believe in the Church, it looks exactly like, “because God told him (the Pope)”, which translates to, “he made it up”.
If you look at the Bible you’ll notice that the Church and many of it’s rules were already established before the Church actually put together the New Testament, and remember they picked and chose what would go in the Bible and what would not go into the Bible. so it’s understandible for people to think that the Church put together the Bible in order to reinforce rules that they wanted to enforce on the faithful.
And one could say, then why do they believe in the Bible, well that’s simple: because it’s all they have of the Word of God, that’s why. And something is better than nothing. Also, remember than one can read a line or two out of the Bible and believe it means something a bit different than what the Church says it means, or even link one or two sentences with a few paragraphs or rules out of the Catechism.
This whole conversation of the church having man made rules started because she told me that she wants to be cremated and then have her ashes split up amongst her children and spread wherever. I explained that the ashes I believe are suppose to be buried in consecrated ground—well, that set the whole thing off.
There was a time when people thought that the Church didn’t allow cremation. Now I don’t know if there was ever a time when the Church taught that, or if it was uninformed Catholics who decided that’s what the Church taught. But I do know that cremation is allowed now. I was taught by my family that one had to be buried in a Catholic cemetery, but I really don’t know if that’s true or not. I can’t imagine it would matter since the whole world is God’s playground but I figure, I’ll find out exactly what the teaching is someday… I think the Church teaches that they have to all remain together (rather than scattered) though. I’m sure that to many people, it really doesn’t make a difference. Ashes to ashes and dust to dust. We go back into the ground anyway…
So she believes the church made up their own rules because she said no where in the bible does it say we can’t use birth control or that ashes are to be buried in consecrated ground?
A lot of people think that Odan commited the sin of contraception by ‘spilling his seed’. However, I was always taught in my years in Catholic grammar school, Catholic high school and Catholic college and even Catholic university, that the sin of Odan was disobedience to God, not the actual spilling his seed…so I can understand the confusion.
As to being buried in consecrated ground, I don’t remember it being in the Bible either… I dunno about that one.
Then she said that my sister and she are going to the Lutheran Church tomorrow for a change. I said that it is a sin for a Catholic to receive in another church and then that set off that she doesn’t believe in that either. ~~~~~ sigh ~~~~~~.
You can go to another service, as long as you don’t replace your obligation to attend Mass as a replacement.
So, she added that to her other questions:
Where does it say we can’t use birth control
It doesn’t. That’s why people think it was a madmade rule. Jesus never talked about birth control. Even if the sin of odan was ‘spilling his seed’ instead of disobedience to God (which is what I was taught), one was not obligated to follow Jewish laws after Christ established His Church. Just like we are not obligated to circumsize our boys, we
are not obligated to any of the other laws except the 10 commandments.
Where does it say we have to be buried in consecrated ground.
I don’t know about that one…
Where does it say we can’t receive communion in another church.
It doesn’t. We can go to another church. But we still have to attend Mass.
Where does it say anything about the Popes infallibility concerning church beliefs and morals.
There are a few verses that the Church points to regarding infallibility, but unbelievers do not think it supports infallibility. There are some that say that it only applied to Peter, and still others who believed that the passages not only applied to only Peter but in addition that it didn’t translate to being ‘infallibility’, and there are others that believe that the Church became corrupt along the way in leadership (and of course that points back to the passages being thought of as only applying to Peter). And of course, there are the Eastern Orthodox who don’t view the same exact passages the same way.
What it boils down to is trust in the Church. If one doesn’t
trust the Church to know what they’re talking about in these matters, then they seem to be made up rules and laws. You either believe in the Church, or you don’t. And that’s not to say they might not come to understand in time, because they can. But it may be difficult to argue with someone who just doesn’t get it. It just may not click yet.